Wow..where to start!!
I have a friend who is going viz the rough page of her life. She is married to the muslim guy for 8 years. Now, he comes back after meeting his family and ask for a divorce. She asked the reason & he told her that she didnt loss 50 pounds ( she is not that heavy though). She comes cjerKrying to me today & summarize all the things he blamed her. I cant believe that a guy will go that low after getting his citizenship.

During 8 yr perios, she deposit her all the pay checks in his bank account. I know she did the wrong thing but he is a good manipulator. The question is how can she gets her money and justice. I donot want her to be penniless after spending eight years of her life.

Can she file complaint against that guy?

Thank you,

Aneesha

so far i know you don't even need to record..if you simply tell cops about verbal abuse that guy will be in mama ghar and will learn the lesson..no doubt..that guy always manipulated her...and now she should be practical..i can see that guy is controlling her ,emotionally abusive......
they will take verbal abuse and physicall abuse equally...

Yeah.. I called her & told her that if he will say anything drugatory to her...then call 911.

Wow..She became a muslim and doesnt have any relation with her parents as they disown her. She learnt how to make indian dishes and culture..I mean she loved him so much...now its coming & she is so shocked dun know what to do. That MOFO..meanwhile ask her if she will buy all the furnitures they have orelse have already found a customer to buy them.

Gosh, I was so shocked to hear these thing. To make the matter worse, he told her that he is going to UK & in order to work there he needs work permit. SO, his sis has found a guy who is willing help him by marrying him....GAY marriage....he is sick...he doesnt know anything but to have citizenship by marrying.

I told her to call 911 & tell everything to the cops.

Wow I mean wow...there are morons like him...need to watch closely.....dammn

Girls don't marry a muslim :)..

hehehe i am such a racist;)..anyways

I feel very sorry for ur fren amanisha..she just could not know his motives better.
Anyways, there is nothing to be afraid of if u just get good divorce attorney and proof of his gay plans things will work out in lot favor of her.
According to american law, Woman gets half of husband property and so does husband from wife's ..so suggest her to get good divorce attrorney.. woman always comes on top.

Yes Amaneesha.
Banks usually are expected to keep a record of everyt transaction and what not.
Also, in case of such an argument, courts usually decide on favour of girls. ON TOP OF THAT, usually people from other countries, especially thoese with a history of women supression and what not, i.e. Pakistan, there are provisions (not opfficial but judges will consider) that she get the right decision.
Go fight for her and take that jerk into jail!

P.S. is your friend Nepali? If she is, cut his d i c k off!!!!!!!

The guy sure is an asshole. Good luck to your friend Amanisha.

Dont know why girls fall for these ji had people. You know how they treat women.. literally like farm animals.. that is in their country but their mentality does not change much even if they come to US. They are like sheeps.. never question their religion.. just do what they are told and go ji had against others..i.e. infidels. I may sound racist because may be I am.. as long as people are living peacefully I do not have any problem. I am not trying to spread hate or anything.. I love peace... that's all

most of the time, women wins the divorce battle in the court. i know in california they do. she can claim alimony and suck out $$ from him as long as he lives. well, i think u should tell her that she be happy that she found the truth on time that he was not right for her. and just try to be happy, because there isn't much that she can do to emotional heal herself. by the way, she can do anything lawfully to get most of the damages he has caused on her. that is why there is LAW in this country. i suggest her contact a lawyer. most lawyers offer free first hour of consultation. this way she can shop around law firms and seek advice, because he cannot be let loose after what he has done.

As far as based on your story I don't think there was any condition about losing 50 lbs when they got married. So there cannot be any bargain regarding tha case although there is a chance that the husband can ask for a divorce without any particular reason. Now our biggest question is how to get your friend off her husband without being pennyless, the best thing to do is to get a lawyer and tell him all about the husband and also his probable intention of leaving her when he got his way which could be used as an intentional crime. Now a days the immigiration law is very tough and I think you can use the intentional crime and get the guy off the country. You can also sue him for all the money or at least half of the money that was deposited in the bank by your friend. Just remember whatever you do if possible do not try to settle with the guy this might come up again so take care of the problem with a very good lawyer.
Good luck

Well i dont know why so called educated sajahities are so racist. Why are you generalising all the muslim. I have seen few of muslims in my workplace love thier wife so much and just cant stop talking about them.

And what do you think of nepalese. Many of the nepalese treat their wife badly. I have seen few of them almost beat their to half death. so what should other say dont marry nepalese they treat their wife badly.

If you cant give good suggestion then keep quiet. Whole community cant be responsible for few person's deed.

hehehe..bidhan..
when i am here why do woman need to marry a muslim ..i treat woman very nice..;):P

well truth is u cannot generalize but sometime you can and we do !
just like you did when you claim americans are ignorant!
i generalize nepalese public to be veda ..hahaahha

well..I just woke up..so glad to find all the responses. Thanks.
She is American and works as a CNA in the hospital I work. We became close frens....for a year now. Sometimes she comes and teach me how to cook Biryani, haluwa..etc.
So honest and kind hearted.

Yup...that jerk should pay the price....
our mission for today is...we will be in the front of yellow page and also google law firms. Call them..and make an appointment.

Its goona b a long day..but its worthy.

Aneesha

Amisha,
You also need to tell all these Nepalese girls so that they don't look for Muslim anymore.
Iam not trying to be racist but don't want any nepalese woman to ruin their life like Aneesha's friend.
hehehehe

MIke...you dun have to worry abt that.coz first of all..I dun have any nepali frens here. Nah...I dun care if its neapli/or any girls...they dun deserve to go via this situation.

& yeah... I have also heard that a nepali guy vanished from his home the day he got the greencard. I agree that this is completely different than my fren's situation. But the nepali guy also showed no descency of telling anything to his wife. He chose to run on the day he got what he wanted. GOsh...he stayed with her for 4 years and couldnt stay one more day. Pathetic......

So its not only muslims...but depends on the mentality...NOt that I have Muslim bf...ehehhe

Though I m not hard core religious person...I m hindu...& dun beleive in changing the religion..that doesnt make any difference to me.

Aneesha

That guy deserve to be punished. First of all, she need to be very strong and listen to her head not to heart. Second, she need to watch all of that stupid's behaviour very carefully and try to document them. She need to make a solid plan to collect the evidence that shows he is abusing her because if she goes to court, she need to present some kind of evidences. She can't win a case if she doesn't have any evidences. So, make a game plan. Try trapping him to send her some kind of emails or leaving some messages for her which can help on this case. If she can't think anything about making a game plan, i can help her.

When you think it doesn't matter being Muslim, why did you introduce him that way!

Anyways reality is the only truth, dont shop around for deals instead find a passionate lawyer who takes your side wholeheartedly.

MSK... I included his religion coz I wanted readers to know that She even convert to muslim...thats it...yeah...I believe in humanity...not religion.....

Aneesha

not to be nosy or anything, do they have a child together.

Mansion...nah...they dun have....coz from the beginning he has been telling her that he doesnt like kids..

what a playa...

By the way, he talked abt divorce again. In response she told her that her lawyer gonna contact him. He dropped his jaw...and changed like a chameleon...and told her that he just want a plain divorce. Then, she told him that if he will give her 8 years (paycheck) back..then may b she will think abt not hiring the lawyer. He didnt say anything and started talking in hindi to his folks.

The funny thing is that moron wants her to buy their Furniture including car and computer from him. I was so disgusted.

I will update u later...ahhh...gotta make something to eat.

Aneesha

I don't know why but I don't understand why our Nepali girls are so "Bholi Vali".
I don't have problems with muslims but I don't like their attitude at all. They are just blind (I have just seen "United 93" and criend for few moments). I gotta very close friend in NY and she sleeps with Muslim guy every day and when I argue with her and she says that she just need a company and she ain't gonna marry him or gonna do some stupid thing (I don't trust her thou coz' I have seen that guy talking sh_t about nepali girls with his friends). My girl friend had a muslim boy friend too for 5 years. I don't understand how she managed to stay with him for so long time. He asked her to change her relegion if she wants to get marry with him. It's so disgusting. Anyway, I feel sorry for this girl. It's time to show that guy middle finger. She gotta take his a$$ to jail. Any help needed, just mail me. Yo all have a good one.

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