Well guys..having to live abroad its a known fact that we have to sacrifice many things in our country. Lets share the ideas about long distance relationship specially when u are living far from your loved ones...Does it last?can u Trust?
will be hoping to continue...

LDR sucks,
With temptations surrounding you it's very hard. I had a GF and everything was perfect. Then one fine day, everything we built together fell into pieces. It was painful, but I am through with it.
Trust is important. I am happy for SS and his soul mate. I wish Rein good luck. One thing I didn't understand why you dong get married. It seems you both have established yourselves. Why suffer the pain? But let me tell you This Pain is Sweet!... Hahaha
My advice, don't build a sand castle.

LDR sucks and you have to be very careful about those who play two side games....
Hard to read mind of gals mate..

Me too dudes, hats off to six strings and rein. And i pray with god for the reins successful love and successful life. But my experience says its damn expensive to keep ur long distance love. My some frens who have their gfs in Nepal, spend around 200 dollars a month calling her. Aba they don't call their home to save money, k garne bachaunu pani ta paryo. I am out of this problem, y ? Coz I never called my so called gf. ehehehehehehehe, funny hummmmmmmm ? I broke up, dudes, u nepal ma ma us ma, uska pani chahana haru holan, ichha haru holan, dating jaana man lagla, i can't just ask her to wait for me and supress all her wishes and desires. Maile bhane, u don't have to wait for me, if u find any one u can go with him i will be more than happy and if i find any one good i won't wait for u. But if both of us are still looking for some one when we meet again we can give a second thought about our relation ship.
I think this is a good way to break up. I believe don't let any one suffer for u. I don't know if she is dating now, i also don't wanna know.
I am good here and she is good there.

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Its too difficult to sustain a long distance relationship from my experience. But congrats to Six Strings.

LDR is hard..u should b able to keep the trust and faith and u should be able to keep the excitement of your relation even though you r not together...
its very difficult but u will enjoy it if you both really can do it....

First of all I would like to appreciate Mr.expectation for the topic,its realli such an easy question but when it comes to you, When it comes upto you to answer, it really takes time to think about it :)
Recentlyy my girlfriend said that our relation wont work cause of the distance we have,and she never looked back but from my side I was 100% sure that we will be togather cause my love for her was strong and still it is and will always.may be thats why it realli hurts me a lot when I think about her now I feel like she didnt loved me the way I did thats why it was so easy for her to say good bye
From my personal experiance I think that if you love someone from your heart notthing matters neither the distance nor the society or whatever, cause loving someone truelly is trusting and trusting means somthing which U havent seen and U belive that it is the way U feel.

Dreamz bro...u r name suggest that u watch to much indian movies and your names suggests me that That is sharukhan and juhi company which produced lot of movie like yes boss etc etc

Dude you are not shahrukh khan and your gf is not rani mukharjee......." pyaar hum ko bhi hai, pyaar tum ko bhi hai" smoking sad eyes full of tears.....wow..perfect what a filmi story....dude wake up

Throw all your indian movies all those senti songs you listen " ek din aap u ham ko mil jayengem, main ne socha na tha" stop acting like akshya khanna in taal crazy for aish hoping her to get one day" ish bina kya jina yaro" i am sure your gf is not singing this but your are..............
if your gf saying this tell you what " she already has eye on someone, did you see pain in eyes when you left her..........did she came running to you and cried .....i hope there was no background sound " kabhi khusi kabhi gum" la la la lal ala laaa laaa........

She is in profond fun with other guy....sitting in moter bike singing " jane kun log pyaar karte hai or dil dil dil yeh tere pyaar me soya.......after 2 months when u will broke.......

she will say stop calling me you are going to be fine in few months.....

grow up dude

i dont think i've seen any posting by a girl so i'm gonna write. i left the love of my life behind in nepal too, and my days here were miserable coz i missed him terribly. it was hard to say if we would ever meet again and then life didn't even seem worth living anymore. then we decided that nothing was going to change unless we did something to change it. he was not just a bf and i was not just his gf, there was something more, we couldn't imagine spending our lives with someone else, we were totally in love and we would have waited for each other no matter how long it took. i had friends who asked me to be practical and i'm sure he did too, they were like how long are you going to wait, you guys are going to end up with someone else if this takes too long, i say f*u# them!! they were not in my shoes so i didn't expect them to feel how i felt. yeah that's why it's called love, time, distance, age.....nothing matters..there's just that one person and you...hope never dies, dreams never fade away...love is not such a small matter, you can't forget and give up so easily..it's hard but it's worth it right? so give yourselves a chance if you think you are really in love, because i'm sure it doesn't happen often, i say it happens once in a lifetime. o and we did end up together coz he came here and i think it was worth it.

I seem to fall in love with every pretty girl I see and meet..I dated girls from Nepalese to hard-core Christians to Bangladeshi Muslims in the US and Canada. I never officially broke up with any girls until this day however the girls I left behind (as I moved to another locations) seemed like strangers to me after a while.

For me I felt as if the long distance relationships were like books I finished reading, selved it and forgot about it, simply because they werent relevant anymore.

I strongly believe that the relevence is the most important factor in keeping long distance relationship alive if not .........chao

Yea, LDR sux big time !!! It's been nearly 11 months now since I've had a chance to meet my gf personally. (yea, photos, webcam..all that are there. But it doesn't really replace what's being missed ! Doesn't even come close! ) It's tough n i don't wish it on anybody.

Applause to all those who have managed to bridge the gaps and remain together even after being so far away !!

a simple request

A simple request from your heart to mine
To be together its a matter of time
I know deep inside our dreams will come true
To be together as one,just me and you

Each day that passes i thank my lucky stars
That you are safe and sound wherever you are
I can only imagine your smiling face
Then the vision vanishes without a trace

I miss you more to just hear your voice
But that is all we got we have no choice
If i could have just one dream come true
I'd dream a dream that i could make it with you

Long distance hos ya short distance ...ya long distance call hos ya shouting from ghar ko baranda...If it is to happen , it happens....yedi purpuro ma nai chaina bhane kaso bau ko ke laagcha....

As far as for dreamz and gurly gul......how old are you guys? have u just finished your plus 2 and headed to US or wherever. Stop looking your life like hindi movies specially made by karan johar, aditya chopra. Better watch movie like HUM DIL DE CHUKE SANAM.......I KNOW SOMEWHERE you will be singing " jhoka hawaka aaj bhi...chup ke see aata hoga naa......tera dupatta aja bhi sar se sarak taa ho ga na". other side she will be singing " tadap tadap ke ish dil se aah nikalte raha"...then there comes arrival of some ajay devgan with marriage purposeal but you are still in love with your oversea love" singing nibuda nibuda ....kacha kacha nibuda laido" then all of the sudden....she gets married chooose by parents then" bari piya bada dukh diya" from devdas....he will be alcoholic and start to sing " sisa se jab sisa takraye jhalak uthi hai jaam" after 5 yrs when u go back to nepal she will have 2 kids and she will be dancing in tej saying " dola re dola re dola re" you will be devasted and your eyes will be red.. then there is another love story will be commenced between two old lover like in movie SILSILA ( YEH KAHA AAGE HUM YUHI SAATH CHALTE CHALTE) THEN HIS VOICES COMES AS AMITAB BACHAN " DIL KARTA HAI DUNIYA KE SARE DEEWAR GIRADU, GALE PHAAD KE KHAHU HAI MUJE TUM SE PYAAR HAI HAI" POOR WIFE OF THE GUY AND POOR HUSBAND OF THE GAL GOES" GHAR AAJA PIYA DIL NAIYO LAAGDA'

I HOPE U GUYS UNDERSTAND WHAT I AM TRYING TO SAY

that was a good one money minded!! i guess you are one of those practical level headed people. i used to think like that too before, i mean if i was in a relatioship with someone who i didn't want to spend the rest of my life with then..what long distance relationship? i'd say my goodbyes the day i was parting, but i guess when you're in love even the impossible seems possible and you're ready to things you never thought you would!

Distance dosen't matters if it's true love..
Keep faith!
Foe

well monyminded, ur the one whoes been watching too much of hindi movies thats why u know every and each word about thoes movies... i didnt even know that (silsila) movie even exist.... duhhhhhhh ur talking bout someting that doesnt make any sense...

As for long distance relationship......... distance really doesnt matter if love is true and strong.... we know that there is no gain with out any pain... ani yea if u r far from each other u will finally know how much u love ur gf or bf... and u can figure out if ur love is true or juss an infatuation atleast its good for 1 thing... if ur love is true distance makes heart go fonder and if its not then out of sight out of mind......

Girly girl......i do watch lot of hindi movies but i dont follow them. The reason i watch is to kill my boredom. I get so tired of work ..what i do is watch any movie my domestic helper brings. I laugh at the scene when there is too emotional. As far as concerned about life and love...tell u honestly.....i have seen enough. One of the reason i have become stone when i comes to love...is coz what i have been through in my life. I have been struggling in my life apart my dad being rich. I left him 4 yrs ago and what am i today is by myself? I dont belive in love coz it is too painful. My true love made my parents loose their face infront of my relative and frens. My dad never beg for anything in life and he is tough guy. When my gf ( who was suppose to be my fiance) left me before engagment which was oneday left. He basically call her and beg her. He even went to there home and cried and beg on knee. Do u know why he did it? he couldnot see me in that grief state. Let me tell you i am chettri and she was rai....you can imagine how broadminded he was. My mum was hospitalized coz of heart attack. I maintained my relation for 3 yrs without cheating her. I called her everyday.
You want to believe in love despite all these........
i was asking for help coz my parents wants me to get married but i have vietnamese gf. She knows that i may not marry her. i told her begining of relationship.....and if i leave her she will suffer badly. I know the feeling. I dont want to hurt her neither my parents..i dont want to see my mother in hospital bed who has already twice heartattack. She is heart patience........when she gave me birth...if it was 5 min late.....she could have been dead. I am operation case....it was thanks to Dr. swarsati who saved her...other wise i could have never forgive myself.

tell me about life......who cares about life.....seen enough

Do u know the meaning of mother? I am sure everyone here living overseas miss there mother more than anything. Everyone wants to have their mother food and cuddle in her lap. Talk to her for ages make her nice tea and chat. In love you forget about your family. You hurt your family...........you forget about them. In love your GF comes first and them parents...how many here calls there mother like they call their GF? How many send gifts or cards to parents. You will remember your gf birth and day you fall in love but you will forget anniversary and birthday of parents. Jasla aam bau lai khusi rakhyo tyo nai jindagi maa sabai bhanda sukhi. You will never be happy hurting your parents. Being a women you should consider pain of having your loved ones in womb for nine months. The more pain is giving the birth but still they take all the pain for their kids. How sacrifical than it can be?

aru timi ani jaana.............i am what am i ?

tell u what......most of the ppl including sajhaties here who has broken heart turned stone..........still remember their true love once in a while and even bring tears in eyes...so tell you what even you get married......you can't forget that gal. Imagine seeing her in kathmandu with 2 kids now in street. How do u feel? when u look at the kids ..........makes u think more.....u imagine well i could have 2 lovely kids like that. Finally, we all cry once in a while in solitary......you dont want to see guys crying....it is unbearable.

jai shiva

Tell U guys what?
If you only know what true love is, there wont be any distance.
To trust someone is more than loving him/her
See oftenly we think that :
Hya afu ta ghar bata yeti tada kas le dekcha ra la hin keta aaja ta ;-) ( That means U never loved someone.)

Ani dheerai choti hami K sochchau.... ( empty mind devils home) we dont trust our bf/gf,We think may be they are doing this or may be they are doing that,we built visions of our own and then we feel like no one loves nobody for ever, and that small imagination of our own, effects our relations.
I know lotta times we think that so what if I sleep with someone else ? I still love my girlfriend. ( what kinda love is that? )
To love someone truelly or to get true love from other is not that easy . cause to love someone truelly is to trust someone and to trust someone U must love him from the deapth of your soul.
Cause heart often changes but soul remains the same.
and when U love some from the deapth of your soul I bet you guys bipasha basu aaye pani timroo aatma ferna sakdaina........( sounds funny ) well its up to you
Timi le kasai lai aatma le maya garcha ki man le?
Aaja timi le kasai lai "MAN" le maya garchau bhani, Bholi timi le tehi keti / keta lai " MAN " parauna chodchaU
Tara timroo maya kasai ko lagi bhittra aatma bata cha bhani tyo sada ko lagi hunecha.
May god always be with You.....

humm... long distance relationship, eh?

Tyo pani of couple with 7 seas betwen them. Well buddy! you will have to build a ship to maintain that relationship or your relationship will be axed and you will have an ex-relationship.

But have no fear. You can always use Mastercard to nurture your relation.

Cheap phone card that gives you 100 minutes call to Nepal: $10/week

Valentine's day gifts from Munchahouse.com: $50

Airfare to Kathmandu (if you can afford): $1500

For healthy long-distance relationship there is Mastercard.

If you were a Visa or Discover customer, you would be smarter and have said goodbye to your long-distance gf when you left Nepal (girls are usually smarter than guys in this case).

it sux man...i know how it feels to maintain it an at the end if it turns out to be failure...only the people who had suffered this know the pain...