Hi friends

I really need help on this matter. Having grown in a family without brothers and always going to a convent school has left me clueless about what men really want from their life partners. Maybe some suggestions from you guys wiill help me better understand MEN.

Do they want their life partners to be very docile, dependent and a homely person? Or do they want them to be ambitious and an equal earner in the house?

After marriage is it important for the lady to be still look like a doll? Or can she be her natural self again?

Which character do men most hate about women? Or it does not matter as they don't think too much?

Will a conflict arise if the woman of the house is very career oriented?

Please feel free to give as many tips as possible. I am seeking help from the good bunch of nepali people so that i have better insight in my relationship.

Thanks

Respect goes a long way.
If you respect each others space, feeling, property, etc., everything else falls into place. No matter what culture you are raised in.

As for everything else, wants/desire differ with every individuals. Know what you want, and know what your partner wants, and if your wants are compatabile - BOOM - match made in heaven ;).

They want happiness... different people have different ways of thinking about life... which directly impacts on how they want that happiness to come..... So, get to know more about your lifepartner... and you will figure out what they want...

but these are couple of things that every men
Be respectful, know how to handle problems, be there for them, help them out if they need any help...... Well... the guy wants everything that you want from a guy... so you know the answer....... just make sure that you are with someone who understands you and knows what compromise and sacrifice is.....

"Will a conflict arise if the woman of the house is very career oriented? "
That all depends on how the guy thinks....

lol... Zeal mentioned everything that i was talking about...
ahah, dade.... i didnt copy from you.. and yeah it does take along time for this thing to update.....

It is interesting that although sand is deep did not copy from Zeal, the thought process does match. I guess repect is an important factor, and ofcourse the space part too.

Thanks both of you.

More input is welcome.

Chameli
There is no right answer to your questions because everyone is different. You cannot hope to become a person that will be liked/appreciated by everyone. Some guys like their wives to stay home and be a housewife. Some want them to work. There is no right way to be in order to have a good relationship with someone.

It always helps if you are a nice person, caring, loving, pretty and smart. But then again some guys might not like a smart wife. So in the end it all boils down to you finding a person that loves you for who you are, and someone who you get to love for who he is. Then BINGO!

Well, you guys have jot down all the ingredients for a better relationship. It does depend on individual personality,their world view or I would say "Mental compatibility ".