WHAT DO U ALL THINK OF CROSS CULTURE MARRIAGE?
EVERYONE HAS HIS OWN CULTURE,RELIGION AND RACE.THEN WHY TO TALK ABOUT UNIVERSAL FRATERNITY? IN UNIVERSAL BROTHERHOOD, I FIND ONE RELIGION ONE CASTE AND JUST ONE RACE. ONE EARTH ONE HUMANITY.IT IS DOUBLE STANDARD TO PREACH UNIVERSAL FRATERNITY AND PRACTICE SOMETHINGELSE LIKE JATBHAT NAMILNEY,CULTURE NAMILNEY BLAH BLAH AT THE SAME TIME. IT AMAZES ME SOMETIMES. WELL,WHAT YOU ALL GUYS THINK ABOUT CROSS CULTURE MARRIAGE .....:)

TERAYMAM

BathroomCoffee Ji, thanx.

zalim your application is weird. I dont think girls like skinny wussy 80 lb guys and they also dont like guys who are 1000 lbs! I MEAN 1000 lbs??!! How can you be 80-1000 lbs!! Its supringly your not dead of heart failure yet!!!

Interracial marriages are cool!! I plan on marrying a foreing woman who is very brown and tan and beautiful! If any of you hot nepali girls like white guys with blue eyes maybe you should give me a email!! Haha! Only Christians need apply! (typical huh?)

The thing is its impossible for people to unite if beliefs are 100% different. You cant just mix a religion and think its going to work.

Differnt cultures are great, different races are great, but the religion part and moral beliefs are the only barrier...the 2 people have to have the same values in order for a good marriage...

Andrew Wa; Good luck, sir! Just make sure your future beloved has more grey cells than you so that your offsprings neutralize the imbalance.

Reverend Andrew the Pious,

Hallelujah! Praised be the Lord! As God's footsoldier, you claim to decipher the sometimes ambiguous message of the bible for us baa baa black sheep, and yet you cannot understand simple english. Now that's what I call a MIRACLE!!

Here, allow me to phrase this in a language you can understand.

SAJHA:psalm69:1
Thou shalt solicit intercast alliances.

SAJHA:psalm69:2
Thous shalt advertise desired traits in THINE christian SUITORS

SAJHA:psalm70:4
Thou shalt marry Eskimos, Pygmies, and Bushmen for the sole purpose of prosletyzing them, and therefore saving them from the fiery heat of purgatory. Let the weight or height of THINE PARTNER not be a barrier in thine endeavor.


Finally, I would like to end this sermon with the following.

SAJHA:psalm80:5
Harke ye, O footsoldier. Thou shalt not take life too seriously (plain english: this is just a joke).

Amen.

and if I was not clear enough, I said "criteria" not "credentials" . hello.

The thing is its impossible for people to unite if beliefs are 100% different. You cant just mix a religion and think its going to work.

Blabermouth...pls stop your Christian propoganda here. You are soo prejudice its not even funny. Mr Blockhead humans have been mixing religion since the begining of civilization. Just in a lil country like Nepal ..we have all kinds of tribal and major religions living in harmony.

Along with your Bible,God gave you a brain too pls use it. In an earlier posting i saw you belittleling sluts(as if they are not humans at all).

O caffienated one, I agree with what you said. But andrew bro should be allowed to practice what he believes in. he just should be a bit careful not to prosletyze born-hindu/buddist/existentialists like us. ALso, i just read the thread you are referring to. Slut, by the way, IS a belittling word. I raise my coffee mug to that too. Amen.

i didn't raise my coffee mug to the belittling, only to you. and it just happens to be coffee time too. damn i wasted two hrs already..

If it works, it's good. If it doesn't work, it's bad...
Simple...

The question about cross culture marriage or interracial wedding to be precise... highly depends upon ways of beliefs. Being a brahmin by origin, I find comfort in looking for a consort who thinks like me, has similar culture and social obligations. But it is not necessarily true at all times. If I am attracted to to a dravidian female and am adamant to spend my life with her... all these petty details are thrown out of the window. Love and commitment turn the tables.

However, things would seem far more easy if she would be from my culture, has similar cognitive status and speak same tongue. I have married a 'sagotri', which is still considered a taboo in brahmin society, but despite all odds,we got married and are living happily. There were some concerns over Gregor Mendel's theory that a hybrid dominates all the identical genetic characters, but our child is in the best of health.

JOHN GALT
"things would seem far more easy if she would be from my culture, has similar cognitive status and speak same tongue."
>>> SO TRUE JOHNJI, U ARE RIGHT IN THIS CASE. SINCE, I AM GOING TO SETTLE DOWN WITH A PERSON WHO IS NOT A NEPALI PERSON.HEHEHEHE THERE ARE TIMES WHEN WE BOTH DON'T UNDERSTAND EACHOTHER(THE WAY WE BEHAVE AND REACH ON SITUATIONS).SOMETIMES, THINGS GET MISINTERPRETED, THERE ARE CHANCES THAT THINGS BECOMES MISUNDERSTANDABLE. AHHHH!! ITS FUNNY SOMETIMES.WELL, I BELIEVE IF THE TWO PERSONS HAVE SAME PRIORITIES IN LIFE AND BELIEVE IN GETTING THINGS DONE IN REAL; LIFE WILL FLOW JUST LIKE THAT...UMMMM WHAT DO U SAY?

ITS REACT NOT REACH.SORRY FOR THE MIS SPELLED WORD.

Mr earthly,

You missed my point, the bottomline is "LOVE", if you love her enough and are sure you want to spend your life with her and no one else, language is no barrier.

JOHNJI
ONLY LOVE.....LOVE ALSO EMCOMPASSES PRIORITY...PRIORITY OF LIFE....I THINK I AM BEING LIL BIT PRAGMATIC....SORRY CATCH YA LATER...WILL REPLY LATER...HEHEHEHEHE I AM A FEMALY BTW....

Neither Inter nor Intra cultural marriages work if both parties are not equally committed to sorting out/accepting differences.

wat do i think of CROSS culture marriage?hehe...
do ppl really wanna read me opinion?i got a short opinion here..dun worry ;oP

they should take off the CROSS off the CROSS culture marriage and replace it with a TICK(Right sign hehe)....now can someone pls pass me the bloody rubber and a pencil!!!actually make it a marker not a pencil!!GRRRRR!! marker which cant be erased off..or liquified hehe..

goodday..

danny

Neither Inter nor Intra cultural marriages work if both parties are not equally committed to sorting out/accepting differences.
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Exactly!!!

Dan..are you in human development and family studies or what ?

Just wanted to say that I am shocked to see Danny dai ko shortest comment ever..!! ;)

Danny! That was funny! Rhythm, Isn't it easier to understand him when he omits the dots and dashes? :P