i have always wondered about one thing....

wot do we do if u love a person but not happy with the sexual relation? can we still be with that person who we love and have sex with a diferent person? or should we just accept the fact that we should not betray the one we love and stick with the unhappy sexual tension which i think will make its way to the surface, if not now then later?

think before you post....i dont think its as easy as most of us would think it is.

peace

 

As some wize man a long time ago said, "men use the pretext of love to get sex and women use sex to get love"...If you can find the fine line in between and work on it, both ya'll would be fine.  Da best to ya both!!

BTW, this thread might help ya!  I'm in no way saying it would be acceptable though  ;)

http://www.sajha.com/sajha/html/OpenThread.cfm?forum=2&ThreadID=53247

Not again! This is fourth thread. Holy heaven!

Ok, For men(strickly for men only) In my personal opinion, There is no such thing called love beside the love to you family. And also as a men sexual relationship is the most essential. Research has it men who are more productive and successful in life are the once who had sound sexual life. Not the one who are in a good relationship with a women. Have you heard that "beside every successful man there is a women"? Yeah this women is not the one at his home with 2 kids or his lover or what have you!. This women is the secretary( if you are her boss), she is the one who satisfies you in every possible way (remember Bill clinton?) Is he a successfull man in your perspective? I bet he is. Just get the general idea here. Just enjoy  and be  happy if you are get good healthy sex, dont bother, do hell with loving caring emotional aspect. Screw that. Enough said.

 

Good luck

YekloYatri

waddup yeklo yatri.......

i dont think there is anything as love too... i dont blieve in love n stuff at least not untill i fall in it, if there is such thing..... but looking at all the pictures that this world has to offer i have to say, i m not exactly sure about that.... there is no such thing as love!!!

so wot do we do?  have sex with all the possible gurls out there and marry the one with whom we have the mosst amazing sex !!! that would be a lil hard, dont u think? i have not fallen in love yet n i admit i dont even freakin know how it feels to be in love but m convinced by the fact that there is something called love.

its one of the most complicated word in this world to describe....n my question remains the same as above.......i jus want to challenge my own beliefs may be.... how does it exactly work? i know for sure that sex is very important in a relation :p but what if sexual relation and love dont go together?

still scratching my head...

peace

THAT MEANS YOU DINT GET LAID !!!

Why love........

If i am getting sex....

what do you think guys

ALL YOU *ICKHEADS..DON'T YOU GUYS HAVE ANY BETTER TOPIC TO DISCUSS!! FOR *UCK SAKE!!! DISGUSTING!!!SHAME ON YOU GUYS!!

 HEY COWBOY..MAN I HOPE U'RE SINGLE!! IF NOT ..GOOD LUCK TO YOUR GIRL MAN!! YOU ARE EVERY WOMEN'S NIGHTMARE!! IF ALL YOU WANT IS SEX ..GO *UCK A WHORE MAN!! ..AFTER ALL ITS ALL ABOUT SHOVING YOUR *ICK UP SOME HOLE RIGHT!!!!!

NO WONDER THERE IS SO MUCH VOILENCE AROUND!!RAPE, DOMESTICE VIOLENCE..SEX RULES...RIGHT !!!!DISGUSTING!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!YOU PIG

..stupid F**k

Didn't you learn about the birds and bees in primary school? It's because of people like you who have no value for love but would trade their soul for cheap sex has resulted in global Aids/HIV, rapes, unwanted pregnancy, fatherless children etc. It's sad and disgusting to read such rejectable thread in Sahja, that also from educated men. What happened to moral values; what happened to the marriage institute; what happened to self-respect? Have you cheapened yourself so much that sex is just a game you play with your balls? Why don't you put yourself in your father's shoes and see what happens to you if your father did what you consider doing? Look at your mother and ask yourself this question...if sex was the only thing in your father's mind, why is your mother still with him and vice versa? Do you think they have great sex? Or is it because they love each other for the rest of their living days. Wake up, man! Just because you're a man, it gives you no right to abuse a woman (even if she asked for it). Two wrongs will not make one right. No wonder you've not experienced what love is all about. Probably all your female friends can smell your 'Sex Only' attitude a mile away. By the way, don't forget to invite me for your wedding.

Yo!!---

this is real. this kind of things happen in real life. whether it be from a man's point of view or a woman's point of view.

soul---honestly, if that happens, don't go sleep with someone else. talk to your partner and work together in finding a way to make it satisfying for you. now, if that doesn't work... there may be a problem... although you love each other... sex is a HUGE  part of life and.... its your decision as to staying cause you love them dearly.. or leaving to satisfy your sexual needs..just have to choose what's important to you

but... if that chemistry is not there.... maybe that match isn't meant to be

scorpio,

it was jus a random thought on my mind... hasnt happened yet... i have yet to fall in loveeee :P

everytime i think i am in love something goes wrong and we break up and then i forget the whole thing in a couple of weeks if not days.... but i do really hope that i fall in love someday n hope even more that when i do fall in love i dont have this sickennin problem...LOL

peace

 

Well written!! Hearbeat..I think we share similar feelings..

Scorpiogirl..these kind of things only happen in teenage life..rather a materialistic world ..not sure of ur gender..but if u are a girl "as your name suggest" then..would you want to be taken for a ride by a guy just for SEX?? ...SEX without love is like "rape in trust??" ..and I don't think most girls are up for it!! ..

If you already have a person that you love, I don't know how u will go on n have sex with a different person?! I mean sex is something passionate and intimate. I know it happens in the so called real world. But, it is also true that if you end up hooking up with somebody else, it would be very wrong to say that it was just a sex n that you still love somebody else. Love's strong. If u love somebody but, have less passion in terms of sex, i think either two of u guys shud work it out by talking freely about it. At the point when u decide to go to bed with somebody else, n still convince urself tht u love somebody else, tht'd be a lie n nothing else.

If you love someone from the bottom of your heart, then you can't make physical relation with someone else. If you did then that would not be the true love then.

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