प्यारी बहिनिलाई चिठ्ठी

प्यारी बहिनी,
शुभाशिर्बाद, धेरै धेरै सम्झना ।

तिहार आउन लागेको बेलामा मात्र दाजुले सम्झिएछ नभन्नु। सम्झिन त म जहिले पनि सम्झिन्छु नि। तीजमा पनि सम्झिएको थिएँ- मेरी बहिनी दाजुको घरमा आएर छमछम् नाच्थिन् होला म नेपालमै भएको भए भनेर। दशैँमा पनि त कति सम्झिएको थिएँ- फोटामा मात्र देख्न पाएका मेरा भान्जा मैले टीका लगाईदिँदा तोते बोलिमै कति मुस्काउँथे होलान् भनेर। हुन त तिमीले यो दाजुले बनावटी कुरा बनायो भनौली। तिमीलाई त्यस्तो लाग्नु पनि स्वभाविकै हो। किनकी मैले यसैगरी सम्झिन थालेको पनि पाँच बर्ष पुगेर छ बर्ष लाग्दैछ। आउँदा बर्षहरुमा पनि केहि परिवर्तन हुने छनक पाको छैन मैले।

आज शुक्रबार बेलुका। बिहान अफिस जानलाई गाडि स्टार्ट गर्न लागेको बेलामा झल्याँस्स तिमीलाई सम्झिएँ "ए साँचि, अर्को हप्ता त तिहार पो है। मेरी बहिनी के गर्दै होलिन् अहिले? मलाई कति सम्झिन् होला है यो तिहारमा!" दिनभरि काम गर्न मन लागेन। त्यहि सम्झनाले धेरै पिरोले पछि तिमीलाई यो चिठ्ठी लेख्दैछु। तिम्री भाउजु यो चिठ्ठी लेखिरहँदा मस्त निद्रामा छिन्। उनलाई तिहारको केहि यादै छैन। उनका पनि दाईभाईहरु त छन् नि, तर पनि उनलाई कुनै मतलबै छैन। दशैँ-तिहारको के याद हुनु नि, डिष्को, जीम, पार्टी, एरोबिकको भा पो। भाउजु त भाउजु, ४ बर्ष भर्खर लागेको तिम्रो भदो त ब्रिट्नी स्पेयर्सको गीत आउनासाथ जिउ मर्काई मर्काई नाच्न थाल्छ, बिमा कुमारी दुराको गीत लगाँउदा उस्ले कम्पुटरमा हिर्काएर फोर्दिउँला झैँ गर्छ। सबैको आ-आफ्नै संसार छ।
क्रमश:

अस्ति जस्तो लाग्छ, तिमी सानै हुँदा 'कति पल्लाघरे काकाकी छोरीको हातको मात्र टीका लगाउनु तिहारमा' भनेर फुच्ची बैनिसँगै टीका लगाएको। बिचारा तिमीलाई थाहानै थिएन प्रष्टसँग। तिमीलाई पनि मैले लगाएको टोपी चाहियो भनेर कति झगडा गरेकी थियौ। "तिहारभन्दा अगाडि दाजुलाई टीका नलगाईकन ओखर खानु हुन्न छोरी" भनेर आमाले भन्दा तिमी लडिबुडी गरेर रुँदै एकछाक भातै बहिष्कार गरेकी थियौ। त्यो भन्दा पनि अगाडी आमा पर्म गर्न मेला जाँदा मैले नै तिमीलाई हेर्नु पर्थ्यो। तिमी कतिबेर सम्म रोईरहन्थेउ, आमा हिडेपछि। मैले तिमीलाई फकाउन 'दशैँ आउला, खाउँला पिउँला। राम्राराम्रा नाना लाँउला, दहि च्युरा खाँउला' भनेर गीत गाउनु पर्थ्यो। 'तिहारमा धेरै सेलरोटी दिने नि कान्छी तिमी अहिले नरुने हो भने' भन्दै तिमीलाई फकाउनु पर्थ्यो। घरको बलेसीमा बसेर माटो पुछ्दै ओखर फोरेर आधा माटो र आधा ओखरको गुदी सँगै खान्थेम्, कति मिठो लाग्थ्यो। तर आजको तिहारमा न त मेरी बहिनीको हातको टीका लगाउन पाउँछु न त ओखर, सेलरोटी, दहिच्युरा नै खान। क्यालिफोर्नियाको यो कोलाहलमा त्यसै त्यसै हराएको छु। बिगतहरु सम्झनलाई पनि रात पर्नु पर्छ।

बैनी, यसपालीको तिहारमा पनि यस्तै भयो, तिम्रो हातको टीका लगाउन पाईन। हुन त के हुन्छ, तर पनि आँउदा बर्षहरुमा चाहिँ बहिनीको हातको टीका लगाउन समय निकाल्ने कोषिष गर्छु। भाईटीकाको दिन (कार्तिक १७ गते बिहिबार) म तिमीलाई फोन गर्नेछु। नेपाली समयअनुसार, बिहान ठीक ८:०० बजे फोनमा बस्नु है।

तिम्रो दाजु,
ओम कुमार खनाल
क्यालिफोर्निया, युएसए

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Ok .....nice one.
I'm also missing my sis........sooooooooooooo much !

om kumar ji,
dherai ramro lekhnu bhayo,malai poni mero bahini ko dherai samjhana airaheko cha.

good job ok broda.....k garne..yastai ho yahako chalan.....no tihar no dashai in usa....:(

OK bro, you brought tears in my eyes.

Heart touching !!

Good Morning OK,

Very nice.Pratek Barsa, Pardeshi Daju-haru ko yestai Halat chha, ani arko barsa hami bhanchhau"yespali pani, yestai bhayo", Baini Sodchhe, dai kahile aaunu hunchha. Khai, samadhan ko nikasha kaha chha?? Bala-pan-ka din samjhe totaunu bahek.

Well. Sar-sar-ti herda, thorai Khushi puna, dherai kehi gumaee jasto lagchha, malai ta. Katai hami affo le sano hunda gumaye-ka kura chhora chhori ko aankha bata banchha chayeko po ho ki? natra Kina Chhora-le Bima chinena? Indian-ka america ma jameka Chhora Chhori le Indian culture lina sakchhan bhane, Hamra-le kina nasaknu?? Tinle BHARAT NATYAM, sikna sakchha bhane, hamra le Dohori ma fan-fanti kina na-nach-nu ta? are we missing something ?

Chhora le NEPALI sankriti sikena bhane, daar malai yesma chha, usko umera pugepachhi, HAMILAI CHINDAINA 'OK'. Hamilai tyo pida darda-dayi hunechha. LANGUAGE ho SAMBANDH-KO bond. tehi tute pachhi, Babu wari- Chhora pari hune chha. Yaha-lai kasto lagchha, yi kura haru? mero sano Jig-gyasha matra... babu hunu ko aartha, sri-man hunnu-ko arth bhujha sayad kehi samaya parkhinu parchha maile. Bichhar Bislesan-ma (Analysis) galti hun sakha mero; annytha nathani dinu hola. Ahile ko lagi BIDA.

- BD

OK jee, sarai ramro lekhnu bhayo. akha ma ansu nai ayo. aja kai flight ma ghar jau jau lagyo

BD writes,
>tehi tute pachhi, Babu wari- Chhora pari hune chha.
LOL!

D. Giri ji,

I was glad those words made your happy - :)

-BD

om dai;
hajur ko bahini le sajha hernu huncha ho?!
hajur ko chithii padha tastain tyastai lagyo!

la ta ma bahini ko ashish! ok dai le phone garda bahini ko phone busy pani nahosh! garnu bitikai lagosh!:D

ma pani" pyaroo bhai "bhanera lekhnu hunthiyo hehe.
buddhu le padhai padhiana, lekheko nalkehe huncha!


yasto senti senti lekhe bhane ta diju lai joro ayecha bhancha hola !:(


~*ruIna*~

ashish -------------->>>subhakamna
ashish ta thulo manche le dincha kyare !

ani chithi pani ramro cha!

~*ruIna*~

Happy Tihar to all of you here !
"Even if we can not celebrate it physically, no one has power to bar us to celebrate mentally/psychologically".

Frinds, thank you for reading my letter and sharing your similar feelings.

Dada,
I am sorry that I was unable to help you for your request. I am passing very busy time now. I hope, I may contribute in coming days. BTW, how was the program overall?

B.D.,

Thank you for your sensitive writings. I always remember your sentences while moving for further paces, specially when deciding my son's future paths. I think I have some good experiences of diversities during my past days till date (do not have specific clues about the future yet!). I can, at least, compare each other, draw lines of similarities and differences, express them in suitable occasions (like here in Sajha) and enjoy within myself. I hope my expressions do not affect anybody in person. If you have not gone till now, please go through my story *Manju Maalai Maaf Gara Hai* here in Sajha to kill your valuable time during weekends (please keep in mind that I am not a writer but a technician)

Ruina,

Are you still here in Sajha? I am glad to see you during Tihar. I like 'Ashish' more than the 'Suvakamana' becuase Suvakamana is usually superficial in nature compared to Ashish. Ashish comes from the heart but Suvakamana comes from the mouth. It is my interpretation --- need not be the same with others... hehe. As far as my sister's accessibility to the Sajha is concerned, it is my only a hope. Even if it is not, you read my letter, which is already more than enough for me. Is not it?
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OK

OK ji, A very responsible person like you will always be ahead in the game of life. Ya, I had read the beginning of your Manju but not in sequences. I wanted to make a small comment at the very first part. But, I rememberd one ELDER-POET saying to me not to make changes in such writings and let it be the original. so, i didn't do so. Ya, you write nice pieces. Real pieces. As time allows I will read em all, and I love to read the poems & stories. Je Bhaye ni; TIHAR KO SUVAKAMANA TAPAELAI PANI. Kura gardai garula. HAVE YOURSELF A QUALITY TIME WITH YOUR FAMILY.

-BD

om kumar dai, thank you for sharing! here is my sano contribution....


"Amrita laai Bhai Tika maa"
Eh, naani, tel lagai dinu na
Mero nidhar maa nalagne hunchha
Timro maya lagauna chahanchhu, saat rang haru maa
Ani sansara laai dekhauna chahanchhu, bahini ko maya

Kati maya dekhinchha, timro ankha maa
Asha pani dekhinchha
Shanti pani....
Bhawishya dekhinchha
Jeevan pani ho....
Tara tadha bhayera, timro yaad matra aayo

Ahile chahi mero nidhar, mero man eutai jastai ho
Timi sanga nabaseko maa, dubai thau khali bhayo
Timi laai sapana maa dekhe bhane, bipana jasto maanchhu
Timro haat baata Bhai tika kati lina chahanchhu!

-bishwasbahadurjhendi

Kasto Tapainle ma ta ..................

Lol, Sab ek se ek.

I woke up this mornig
Found out that its Haloween after visiting this thread
Thought that, time flows forward
Did know that takes you to stone age in Haloween
What happened to Internet,
What happened to Telecom???

I am very confused

peace out

Highfly,

I like criticisms--- but not from likes you. In my view, you are even not suitable to make comments in my post. Other may have different perceptions---enjoy with them. Best of luck !!!

But, I know you very well --- not personally but from your writings in many threads in Sajha. It is not difficult for me to figure out who you are and what you think about others. It is open to everybody what your nature is and what your aim is in Sajha. Be reminded that you are not better than me in politics, opinions, logics, sentiments, analyses, forward looking views, social awareness, awareness in cutting-edge technologies. However, you are far better than me to pull other legs, to discredit others' achievements, to mislead public to fulfill your vested interests and to feel yourself superior than others. For proofs, see your all posts in Sajha, when you have enough time to look yourself in a big mirror, and, if you have little guts, analyze them to make conclusions about yourself.

DO NOT WRITE IN MY THREADS. I DO NOT EXPECT REPLY FROM YOU-- THE HIGHFLY.

---
OK

OK,

Thanks for letting me know that you have superior logic, cutting edge technology and others. I am really amazed by your capacity to figure out whom am I and what I think. Let me know what is my intrest, cause I am trying to figure it out myself. Aba Key bhanne "Hajur nai Hanuman. Hajur Kai Lamo Puchhar."


I thought this was a public forum. I did not know that its your personal property.

peace out

Anyways Happy Tihar