This gal left me for her old boyfriend, this lafanga reappeared, begged to her,and wept and made a lot of scenes, and told her if she did not marry him,he will die,,,, which he did several times to her. To my astonishment,when i knew this, she already ran away with this good for nothing fellowww.

i feel bad and humiliated by her act, and when i awoke next morning,the sun is shining,as always,and the birds are chirping on trees neighbourhood,as always,and i know life will go on without her also.

the feeling of rejection, make me what feel some downhearted lately,,, All her promises and sweet words over this year,,,,,,,,,, and infact she betrayed me!!!! i can forgive her for betrayalll,she might have her own reasons, but the feeling of rejection??? it making me unhappy and i am in low spirits nowwww. i can not help but to keep on cursing this gal,,,,, can you guys help me out of this ?????

Time heals everything....so dont think too much. Keep yourself busy.

veekas!
~~#this gal left me for her old boyfriend, this lafanga reappeared, begged to her,and wept ...................,,,, which he did several times to her.>>>>>

com on myaaan!!!!! what were u doing when that old guy was begging,weeping etc etc with her! u made her believe that guy *lafanga* deserves her more thn u do?!

~~# To my astonishment,when i knew this, she already ran away with this good for nothing fellowww. >>>>>>>>>>>
she ran away areee!!but he *good for nothing felloww*seems good at *pataying* one he loves.he seems good at making her realize how much she means to him.

~~#i feel bad and humiliated by her act,................................. her also. >>>>>>>
u can't hold for what u dont have. one sayin"set it free, if it is urs it will come back if it doesn't come back it never was urs".. but lemme correct ,she wont come back !. himmmat hoina?;) so fren time will heal ur wound.life goes on n on n on

~~# the feeling of rejection............................., can you guys help me out of this ????>>>>>>>>
life itself is betrayer hoina. abu manche ko k kura garnu.situation,emotion etc etc make them become one.

guys and gals can't help ya..trust meh its u and time who can help.
u deserve someone else.be happy!:)



~*ruIna*~

veekas bro, i know your pain... just been thru it. All those sleepless night, ache heart and all those hunting images of her on the mind. Bro, it's not worth wasting a time. Think of what you don't like in her and you will start to feel better. Just be glad that you don't have to put up with her crap for years and years to come.

Euta le bhanthyo kya:-
"In three words I can sum up everything I've learned about life: it goes on."

He he he.

Thanks to my tweetu madhubala, I got to share my enlightment with Veekas. Ajkal ta thread kun kun k eke herne tyam nai nahune bhanya.
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Tell you what mate, notwithstanding the low self esteem and spirit, if it makes you feel any better, let me share my considerably limited experience.

I have been dumped countless times, so much so that I kind of enjoy it now. It had also come to the point that even when we had broken up for the umpteenth time, she would threaten be, "Chaddinchu ani..." LOL.

As if that was not ironic enough, believe it or not, 7 times by the same girl:p
Now, did I suffer, felt blue or considered suicide ( lol, bhandya ni ;))? Well! Ha ha ha!!

Now, I will tell you the best part --- each time we broke up and made up and broke up and made up, I almost believed this betrayal, breaking up, feeling blue and all these infantile behavior was nothing but all part and parcel of the deal. Imagine how irresistible she might have found me if she had to come to me for 7 times, never mind to dump be YET again. LOL ;) hehe. Did I tell you I always got scared on those days of the month, knowing what is about to come? LOL. Hahahaha. you know wot i am talkin about he? :D

Oftentimes I wondered if she was practicing what I have affectionately come to call, "the art of breaking up." Or maybe she was doing some kind of thesis for her doctorate degree. What else could I have done? Let her fail in her chosen discipline?;). No Sir, I could not do that. I have a tender heart , you see.So I volunteered, and I suffered;).

Last time we did break up, my words we... my love I thank you for breaking my heart, for if not anything, it would someday create an immortal piece of art. :p

And tell you what, she loves art. So she kept coming, abusing, hurting, laughing, and yes crying with me. Now you might think why would I let her dump me seven times? Well, if it helps, for all the reason in the world, the most important was, I knew she loved me, for one. : )

And second and most important reason for YOU is, always remember, it is harder to dump somebody, and to be dumped. Thus, you have been blessed. Trust me; I would rather let someone else dump me 1000 times. And the sweet pain...ah! It is as good as or even better than the one we feel in the beginning of this "jatra" called love.

Enjoy it, cherish it, for in days to come, you might as well have to suffer the agony of being loved ;).

And regarding her, I know no matter what we say is not gonna help you much, but know this, it is better to be dumped, than to dump somebody. Take it from me; I have been abused ;) countless times. I swear!


In jest,
IndisGuise :)

P.S: Actually I was about to throw in a story of another love struck romeo who happen to think he is still dating this girl even after she is married and have kids. LOL. some other time. I promise that was hilarious. Hey dude, I already took your permission eh? Hahaha. You know who you are. ;)

So I volunteered, and I suffered;) it is better to be dumped, than to dump somebody.
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Good one. Need to remember this line you never know when you have to use it. :D


''it is better to be dumped, than to dump somebody''

Awwwww how romantic. :P

Veekas bro,

This is what people call life (I think), lots of ups and downs. I have been through this situation too. But I am sure time will heal you. But you know what, I have learnt big lessons. I used to wonder why people don't take such relationships seriously. I took it seriously, but had to go through the same situation as you did. My message "Never ever take such relationships seriously. People are selfish. They will dump you when their business is over "

""""Did I tell you I always got scared on those days of the month, knowing what is about to come? LOL. Hahahaha. you know wot i am talkin about he? :D """"
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ha ha Indi this time u really remind me something hilarious...Its like weather in Belgium u dont know when its gonna pour or shine....the real problem is we dont remember these days thoug they come every month...damn our Bad ..boy will be boys

Life goes on no matter what, often for the better...

(If you lose love, .....)

if you lose money, nothing is lost
if you lose health, something is lost
if you lose character, every thing is lost

If u lose love, look at ur frens :p

the thing with having your heart broken is that, no matter how much the other person tries to explain what they are feeling and why they need to move on, it almost never makes sense to the person whose heart is being broken. you are just left there, struggling for even the slightest piece of understanding.

and then, there is the conflict between wanting to let go and wanting to hold on....how to keep that person's memory alive in you, while not letting it destroy you....how to celebrate the time you had together without letting it eliminate other possibilities from your future. i think it's a good thing to mourn the end of a relationship- after all, it is a form of loss. and it's necessary to reflect on that loss before you can move on. i say this as i struggle with it too....

testdirector, i liked your post. but i am wondering what is lost if you lose love. is this a fill in the blank?! perhaps that would be the best advice for veekas? to fill in the blank. sure, we can all offer advice from our own experiences, but when it comes down to it, he knows himself and he will know what makes sense to HIM. he will know what to do, what HIS right answer is, as what works for one person does not necessarily work for another.

and indi dai, ba-baa, seven times?!?! what's that saying- "fool me once, shame on you. fool me twice, shame on me...." aba ta, "fool me seven times, shame on _________" ?!
la ta, fill in the blank, hai! (;-D)

hey sense bro, long time myaaaan.
hahahahaha bro look at ur frens ki frens ko gf :P:P:P:P:P:P:P
Y should I look at frens without one???????????????????????????

veekas bro. Sorry to hear bout ur unsuccessful love story, bro ley aba shikhar churot tanna thalnu paryo "safalta ko laagi" katai kaam gari po haalcha ki.

tara yeuta kuro mailey nabujheko kya. don't wanna sound mean or rude though, y u saying all in sajha. Do, people here really care bout what's up with ya ? If its true, y u tryinna make fun of urself. If not true, there are lot other ways to get attention too. If u truly had loved someone, u will never lose her no matter what, but if u were not serious, there is nothing to blame and no one to blame. U r tryinna make fun of a relationship which stands in trust and faith and belief.
I am not tryinna ruin the fun of this thread but still, its not fun when it comes to true relationship.

roseyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy awwwwwwwwww
u lookin so romantic today, iska raaz kya hai ?
haami pani romantic bhaidim na, katai kehi bhai po haalcha ki. :P:P:P:P:P:P:P

ruina is getting intelligent every day :P ;-)

hahahahahaha

take care guys
have fun

harkeDai

Hmmm.. now I found a thread worth reading... !!

See Veekas bro, It's normal in love.

You were the kind
who?d never show emotion
but my eyes were blind
when I gave you my devotion
I thought you were perfect
I gave up my heart and soul to you
and I never even suspected
that you would leave me
Rejected

I know how stupid I am
to fall into your traps again
I shouldn?t have gotten so carried away
with thoughts and dreams that you would stay
I gave you all you expected
and then you left me
Rejected

You saw my cry
but you never really seemed to care
I watched you lie
but still I was unaware
I thought that I?d lost everything
you broke my whole heart
in two
and though I loved you
through all of your imperfection
still you left me
Rejected

And now you?ve come back to me
begging me to please see
that you?re in love with me
so I?m doing the unexpected
seeing all your imperfections
and then ill leave you
Rejected

aiya, dukhyo, ocean ko poem....that should go in badarni's "without you" thread yaar!

Ocean,

Although I do not know much about poetry, your poem is touchy.

Vikas bro, I aint no expert but time will heal. For the temporary releif, try strip clubs.

peace

i am back,and checking all suggestions and advices from shajaites friends,and enjoyed reading them and thanks for your time!!!

newlynew, u r right, i need a new girl, i will marry asap, no more girlfriends!! chat mangani patt biha!!!

flipflop,,she might have loved him more than you....!!! maybe u r right!!!

ocean - Relationships are often made to break some day????

anonymous - why feel humilated!!her loss ni ;o)...yeah,yeah, you are billion percent correct! i do not wanna elaborate on this,guys might think i am bullshitting.

ashim - thanks for your suggestion,and thanks for BACHKE RAHENA RE BABA advice

gurlinterrupted - thanks for your analysis,perhaps she is still very young 17-22 yrs old to focus her mind and energy in a stable relationship hence wondering around, u are very good at analysis,thanks for your suggestions as well. your meditation T... not taichi?? it's till now seems difficult to me, till now i am cursing herrrrrrrrrr. thanks anyway, i will try on that ASAP.

matrix rose- time heals everything....so dont think too much. Keep yourself busy. yes, u r right, time is the best teacher!!!

ruINa - guys and gals can't help ya..trust meh its u and time who can help.
u deserve someone else.be happy!:)
i feel like reading great philosophy, thanks for that, you r great!!!

ruiNa,regarding your queries, that is long story... i will write someday to tell what exactly happened, the story here i started in this thread is just a short version!!! believe me, i was unaware what was cooking and when i knew she already ran away with this guy,ran away means poilo gayooooooooooo bou aama ko nak nei katayerrra !!!

cab frank - Just be glad that you don't have to put up with her crap for years and years to come. wow!! yes, yeah, u r soooooo right!!!

sweetP -In three words I can sum up everything I've learned about life: it goes on. Yes,YEAH!!!

indisGuise - thanks for your sharing your experience, this is the right girl for you, you heard of??? A successful marriage requires falling in love many times, always with the same person. you r great guy,and funny toooooo..., hehe!!! waiting for your new story of love struck romeo!!!

bengal tiger - "Never ever take such relationships seriously. People are selfish. thanks, i will take note of this for future reference.

thank you all for your time.....,i really appreciate it!!!

Ma aafai pani yo nameetho anubhaV bata Vhayera aayeko huna le, Mitra Veekas ko pida
ma Bujhna sakchu...........
Farak yeti nai ho ki Dheerai Paachi aayera Balla maile Bujhne Mouka Paye ki Galti mero Nai Raecha/thiyeacha......
Huna ta maile pani tyo auta rejection ko feeling liyera ali din RaanaBhool ma Beetaye............. Tara
Satya Jane sakepachi te sabbai Vyertha lage.......
ra satya teahi nai thiyeo ki maile Jati gare pani tyo keti firta aaune Kura Vhayena.....teso vhaye pachi aaba Uslai nai samjhera Jeeunu nai Chadideni Kura pani Vhayena.....
Ho maya Rahi nai Rahne cha uni prati Tyo kura Beglai ho...............
Aaba hami le ye Kura haru lai samatera Basnu Vhanda pani......
Ennai Kura haru bata kehi seekhau ra Aghi Badau.........

When someone seems outta reach.......
Just take some time to think.......
who has moved..?
its her or you

:-)

Veekas bro - you should be in heaven now - no more nagging` "isn't it peaceful"? I love it bro...I was in the same boat - I am a very new person now - I look at love in different prospective?

Veekas Bro:
On a more serious note, I am sure this experience will make you a more mature individual who can handle anything. Some time from now, you will be thanking your lucky stars that this happened to you that has made you a complete man ready for anything... Good luck.

"Good one. Need to remember this line you never know when you have to use it. :D"
--> Try it. It works. It's even better when I myself work towards it. Just so I can use it. :)

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"indisGuise - thanks for your sharing your experience, this is the right girl for you, you heard of??? A successful marriage requires falling in love many times, always with the same person."

Veekas, yeah I heard you. But I have a hard time convincing myself.But I absolutely concur with you second statement. And guess wot, I practice it as well. Hahahaha. Will it work if I pretend that it is the same person? Again and again. Haha. It's not that bad mate. try it ;).

"waiting for your new story of love struck romeo!!! "
--> I do not know whether to make him the protagonist or yours truely int he title as "Love Struck Romeo!" Does Indi work? Hahaha J/k.

And hey, thanks for the compliments. you know a weird thing about complimets, it has a way of coming back to you. So back to you mate. :) Haha.

Am just glad my rather obnoxious experience brought you laughter. I think I should thank her fro your side :p. but am scared, things might flare up yet again. Considering 7 is a lucky no., i shall just leave at that. Or maybe i can reach 13th. Haha. Unlucky no. Damn , if i can pass 13th, then i know, it's her. LOL. Hahaha.

Later mate!
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"and indi dai, ba-baa, seven times?!?! what's that saying- "fool me once, shame on you. fool me twice, shame on me...." aba ta, "fool me seven times, shame on _________" ?!
la ta, fill in the blank, hai! (;-D) "

Palpali daju,
How about, "fool me seven times, shame on US" Hahahah. or maybe shame on you. You know how it is, it goes back and forth. 1st ma shame on you, 2 ma on me, 3 ma on you, yestai yestai. Bottom line is, both are ashamed ;).

yo pani "without you" radim? LOL. Did you went and stopped her at the airport? Hehe ;)
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"ha ha Indi this time u really remind me something hilarious...Its like weather in Belgium u dont know when its gonna pour or shine....the real problem is we dont remember these days thoug they come every month...damn our Bad ..boy will be boys "

---> Damn Sense, it must suck to live in Belgium. Hahaha. know wot i mean?:)

I do remember those days and often used to ask. You know how it is. Achano le haneko kukur bijuli chamkinda tarsini :p. Hahahaha.But if i look at the bright side, there are quite a few. Are not there? Share the hilarious incident. Should be good.

Aiight folks.

In jest,
IndisGuise:)