Every once in a while, certain circumstances arises that makes one really happy. Its been quite sometime since i last felt really reallyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy HAPPY.

I was just wondering, if its just me or there are others like in this situation. You know when you feel really satisfied, at peace and you just can not help but scream and shout " YESSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSS".

I know small things makes one happy, but i am talking about those small/big things that made you REALLY HAPPY. Mind sharing those moments? Perhaps it would help me and many others to just cheer up a lil bit.
Generally a happy guy,
IndisGuise:)

What is this all about? What the f...k is going on? Does it make fuc......king difference? Am i standing here looking for appaluse? Am i standing here so ppl can point me as bad wolf? Am i suppose to lecture here on 7th grade or having PHD in literature? Do u care about this?
Is sajha your everything? Does it provide u bread and butter? Dont u have u r won real world? Why u having discussion for me? Have i asked one?

Maanch lai duniya bhar ko tension cha.........sajha ma aayecha ramailo garicha...ali ali saath bhai pani banayio. This is what i asked for and i have made some good frens here. I am not looking for anyone appreciation here.

Who am i? some celebrity.........to make river out of the drain

anyways thanks guys...............chow

hey guys...whats up?:o) im new here ;oP..

anyways ..well maybe i shouldnt be writing...or maybe i should?who knows...but i do feel like writing right now ..so i shall..:o)..(alik control lai kickin it down the drain for now..hehe)

btw nice thread going on here..:o)....so many times felt like adding smthing here...but too good in control aint i?well im supposed to be 'retired' here ;oP...

kdee bro...u should write more...dunno why..well the things u write makes sense to me hehe..and kinda look foward to ur writings...dun think it will become less appreciated if u write more and more often...well then again that does happen hoina?well..herum ke ke huncha...

ok back to topic...too many moments to write about ..that makes me feel happy thinking about them...(esp since if i start writing on just one moment..i might never be able to finish it..to write about all of them?dyam i need a typis.. for free..anyone? ;oP actually not for free..u get to hear me bhak bhaks..which ur gonna type..so hehe i do give ni ;oP..)but one thing is for sure...well sajha has played quite some part for being who i am i guess :o)...met some ppl here..read some things..its nice to read things and feel that there is another person out there who kinda might have expereinced somethings i have..and well just feels good..to feel that :o)...so all i can say is...just carry on writing everyone..who knws who might be reading it..and appreciating it..tho not showing it :o)..(i know its hard to just talk and talk..and no one responds..or no one seems to understand..dun think we will ever be understood..thats the fun part of it hoina?hoping one day we will be :o)...but in the end...nah..dun think we will ever be truly understood...hehe...

anyways enuf of me ranting...esp since im gonna rant about meself hehe..kya bore hoina?;oP...well dun wanna talk about someone else and bore u all more hehe..at least bored with me .i can take that..but about that someone else?whoever dare gets bored of her!!!u get me RKR!(go fig what that is ..if u can be arsed ..let me tell u 1st...aint worth it ;o) hehe)...

just feels great to be alive..and well expereincing things..good or bad..its all good cos in the end...those experiences makes me who i am..just like they make who u are hoina?..and well we think too highly of our own self dun we?;oP..dun u lie by sayin u dun ;oP hehe..

and MM bro sure do rocks :o)...cos he has experienced a lot of things we havent.well im not takin anything away from the others who dun think the same about MM bro hehe..u all got ur own experiences(or worse lack of it.. urghh) that makes u feel that way...

are we what we are supposed to be?fate?or are we what we are made cos of experiences?..dyam if only someone could really answer the questions i have..tho i do know even if they did..i be too thik to see that its right..esp if it goes against me views ;oP..whats wrong..whats right?who knows..in the end...i guess we are all here just to live...live our own lifes..the way we want..(or supposed to be?)dyam im babbling!!wahahaha :oP

nice seeing u guys after a long time...Hi Lady...Confused(have a feelin u always will be here..u like it that much dun u?;oP)..Kdee..and the rest of the sajhaites...

Merry Xmas and Happy New Year in advance..who knows i might not be able to wish tomorrow..what if tomorrow never comes?gotta live for today..tho cant stop dreaming about tomorrow hehe..poor me..am i more confused than confused?i think i am ;oP..hehe...they are just another day..means smthings to some..means nothing to others..but well everday i guess is smthing :o)...hope it is for everyone out there :o)..

have a good life..well try to have one ;o) ..if ur screwed in ur head..and dun wanna..well thats ur own life..its good for u..cos u want it that way i guess hehe...

laters...
dyam miss that salli gaddi :o)...

danny...(dun worry will take a long break again..hopefully i can :o)...)

^SKIP the ABOVE POST!!!!!!!!! wahahaha freakn hell such a long BS!..what scares me i was in control and could have wrote more..:oP

have a good day..:o)...whos runnin out of time...arent we all :o)...


danny...

Anyways,.........i stoped eating mac donald for last 9 months....for the first time after reading this thread...........i feel like having a mac chicken nugetts which is made out of old chicken who cant lay anymore eggs. I have to thank to all u guys....for making me eat junk food again.......today, for me my own food sucks........fine dining looks like bhatti......

cheers

Ashis bro......i know u r talented and hard working too. i have known you well and i have nothing against u and your good writers fren here. let me tell u i am not offended by anyone. If u could have understand words macdonald and chicken nuggets........in different way , i am writing .........u should have not again write in thread

You seems to only understand big vocabulary and litreature english........not simple with hidden sarcasim..

cheers mate.........no worries

TMA, I was not referring to Iso_freak's remarks in any way.

The people you mentioned, i.e, Sitara, Czar, G_I, Oyes, certainly are talented writers, I have enjoyed their contribution immensely. I am venomously oppose any personal remarks on their private life. However, my intention was to let Mr. Czar know, that he CAN not use the choice of words he did to others. If he talks shit, no one is going to keep mum and take that shit, even if it means he has been a good contributor in sajha b4.

Let me exlpain , what i meant by shitty/degrading remarks to other.

"....... reeks of the rubbish dumped by THESE MUTTS. ......"

"....down to the level of the REEKING PITS THEY INHABIT."

"If you can't hack it, LEARN. More importantly, let go of your fragile EGOs and APPRECIATE those more skilled than you. Do not ATTACK others for your own failings"
--->This one i actually agree. But should it not work both ways for our CZAR ji and the mortals?

" Seasoned sajha readers may have observed that over the past year most of sajha's talented writers have fled to other more welcoming environs. Has anyone stopped to consider why? "
__ Blaming others for someone else's action/decision; do you call it being reasonable? If they stay is sajha. GREAT. If not " TATA -BYE BYE". It was good while u lasted, and hope ya have a wonderful life, would be all I got to say. Every now and then, I for one sure would have a nostalgic feeling though.

Just because people envision an "Ideal" world per se, doesn't mean s/he will have one. Ideal scenario/world remains in ones dream, not in reality. Sajha is diverse, and diversity creates confusion, along with opportunity to learn and enjoy others thought and inputs. And guess what, this very diversity is the soul essence of SAJHA. Enuff said.

( My intention was not to personally attack anyone. If anyone felt so, my sincere apology. Just could not contain myself after seeing some extremely degrading remarks and choice of words on others)

But One gets, what one reaps.

Anyways, looks like a great morning here, sun is shining bright, last day at work b4 holiday, thinking about taking a trip somewhere nice, or shall i just enjoy the HOME ALONE" episode ;), of course participating in Hara- kiri with mah Lady.

I am ready to be abused ehehe ( if someone's listening ;) :p)
IndisGuise:)

I am venomously oppose = I venomously oppose

I am one of many Passive readers of Kurakani. I have enjoyed the afformentioned group of writer's pieces in kurakani as well as writer's guild tremendously. However, I was blown away by Czar's idiotic comments. It is a classic case of artist/writers having a superiority complex about their art. To belittle or malign a community of ppl simply because they won't live up to someones standards is unexceptable. If Czar thinks we are "MUTTS" who "reeks of the rubbish" then may be he should start his own sajha like members only community where he can check the IQ of all the members before they are invited. As far as i know, this forum doesn't require an intelligence check before you become a member.

So Czar, deal with it; not all are as intelligent, well spoken and smart as you are. Welcome to the real world bro.

i was most happy when i realized for a fleeting moment that i really do not need anything to be happy. it was more than happiness. it was bliss.

i think i was overcome with a feeling of intense gratitude for all that i had. but this ingrate self keeps lusting for more more and more.

ok. now back to the rat race....

Aiight Merry Xmas people. Hope this Xmas brings you much joy and satisfaction and blah blah blah :), and then you guys can share it with us. I hpe to hear few interesting stuffs from you people.

Don't drink and drive. ( aba afnu xmas ta first part garera nai bitcha jasto cha :) )
IndisGuise:)

i think its better to
'SMOKE N FLY'
kaso :-)

Hey TMA bro,
i am right here reading every post very intently :). Just can't find a better haven than sajha. Actually, I am trying to put all the memory lanes together once n for all :) still short on few stories.

I enjoy both old and new sajhaitees equally well. and i know there are so many old writers who now come as new ;). The only thing that really bothers me is why can't we all get along FOR ONCE .(is it a reminescence of our country?). I am with you TMA bro. We can learn a lot more by listening and reading, than merely complaining and critiquing :)

Lately I am suffering from PGS (post graduation stress) and I tell u its not a very good feeling at all. Now, jus look at the irony of this post........the moment u were really happy..jus couldn't resist

Yes, interestingly, that day in Nursery, going to school with new BATA shoes and new bag my dad had bought me with animations of rockets and monsters. I was jus euphoric.....................haven't felt such since!

ल यो सप्पै पढेर अनि बल्ल लेख्छु मेरो ब४। अहिले सुत्न गएँ।

शूभरात्री !

Lau aja 25th. Merry Xmas.

Afno ta kun dashain ho kun tihar bhairako bela.

Anyways... Hope u guys would have somethign to cheer ab out in xmas.
IndisGuise:)

P.S: Dada giri, ke kahyera sutchau bro... ajai utheko chainau.. i need something like that too. Madira khanda pani dherai nindra lagdaina :(

हाआई!

म उठैँ ब्रो ।
कहाँ धेरै सुतेँ र?
त्यो यु एस् र जापानको टाइन डिफ्रेन्स छ नि, त्यही हो ।

Confused broko सम्झना दामी लाग्यो मलाई त। अझ @आमा@ कविता हेर्न पाए हुन्थ्यो जस्तो लाग्यो। हाम्रो त के आमाले होमवर्क सोमवर्क हेर्नु नि! कालो अक्षर हात्ती बराबर !

पाल्पाली ब्रोको ब४ लाई नि Respect! ठोक् दिम्?
ए! ढोग दिम्? भन्न खोजेको हाड नभा कि-बोर्ड जता थिच्यो उतै थिचिन्छ। अन्यथा हुन पगेछ।
तिम्रो ब४ लाई त म ढोग्छु ब्रो।

पाल्पाली ठूलो दिलले हुन्छ टोपीले हुँदैन!
आँफैले खन्छ, आँफैले खान्छ सित्तैमा छुँदैन।
त्यो तिम्रो तलब गाऊँमा देऊ, पाठशाला बनाऊ!
सिगाँने गाऊँका ती केटा केटीहरुमा लगाऊ!
पाल्पाली
तलब, गाऊँमा पठाऊ!
पाल्पालि मुटु पाल्पाली गाऊँ अमेरिका झुलेको
मन तिम्रो खोल मुटुलाइ चिर पाल्पा नै बोलेको!
पाल्पाली
तलब, गाऊँमा पठाऊ!


अनि MM Broले भन्या ७ क्लासको अनुभव पनि सार्थक लाग्यो तर पछि किन झोक्किया नि त्यो Isolated freak Bro sita? सोझो मान्छे छ IF Bro. त्यस्सै सात्लोपुत्लो गएछ कट्टुमै सु गर्यो, बरा!

My Happiest moment of my life भन्दिम्?
माली गाइले बाच्छी पाएउँदाखेरि देखि लिएर अब यो टोकियो टावरमा दिउसै रात पारेको सम्म, जति नि छ? कुन भन्ने खै?
ए! ल,
Last year I happened to visit Gandaki Hospital, My elder brothers' SASU was hospitalized. I talked to the sisters (Nurse). She was Radha sister.
मलाई कता कता देख्या जस्तो लाग्यो। सोधम् भने अस्पतालमा नर्स पट्टयाउन खोज्यो भनेर समात्ला भन्ने डरले एकछिन सोधिन। केटीका दाँत हेर्छु , हाँसो हेर्छु, फेरि चिन्या चिन्या जस्तो लाग्छ।
मैले ठुलो आँट गरेँ, जे पर्ला पर्ला भनेर सोध्दिएँ।
सिस्टरलाई चिन्या जस्तो लाग्यो। मैले राधा भन्ने एकजना बहिनीलाई ट्युसन पढाउँथे, कता कता उस्तै लाग्यो।
Fortunately she was same Radha herself. My part time student, now serving as a nurse here.
यहाँ भए त अगाले हालेर किस गर्न हुन्थ्यो अब नेपालमा ... ... ...छुने कुरा भएन।
But I was so happy to meet her so unexpetedly!!!

OK, let me say something now.

First, I come to Sajha to have a good time, to take my much needed break from all day of classes and work, and I am sure, many of the Sajha visitors come here for the same reason. Its always good to read what many of us who are abroad have to say about the issues pertaining to Nepal and the world. Its good to exchnage ideas and engage in a debate that challenges you. Some of you might totally disagree with my position on certain issues, but by disagreeing and challenging me, you have made me think more, read more and back up my views with more evidence and in a more acceptable manner. And that's one of the many reasons that I come here, read the messages and post my views on certain issues. I believe that its not the ideas that are bad, its just the way you present your ideas/views. You can be totally civil and get your views across, rather than be condescending and disrespecting towards others for their views. Of course, I did not learn this overnight. It took years to learn this, and I am proud and happy that I learned this. Its helping me a lot with my classes too. When I say something in my class, there's 20 people contradicting me, and it doesn't feel bad. I do not chnage my views based on what they say, but it does help me think from 20 different angles, which in turn helps me defend my views from 20 more different angles.

About my answer/reply to moneyminded: I read his reply. Obviously he had misudnerstood/misread me. Maybe he was having a bad day, or he just read parts of what I wrote. And I saw no reason why I should go around explaining something that was written in a plain, simple English ( Due to my own lack of understanding of the language.) So to settle the matter without hurting anyone's ego, I wrote a message in Nepali saying, there has been a misunderstanding, so let's read each others' post carefully and after reviewing all the posts, we'll carry on with the discussion. If people want to interpret my reconciliatary appraoch as my weakness, then be it. But let me tell you one thing, which I am learning now: Sometimes people say things without understanding what the other person is saying or trying to say. It happens in the real life too. You should try to either make them understand or just let them think the way they think, unless and until its absolutely necessary to correct them. There's no reason to be taking it seriously, you are better off simply brushing off those comments/issues. If I had chosen a collison appraoch and had started to correct and translate every line, or had been unwilling to budge even an inch on a simple "Shit" stuff, imagine how much time I would be thinking about my replies to every message here, and wasting a good amount of time checking Sajha every 5 minutes. This thread would have turned from good to bad to ugly, like some of the threads in the past. The same thing happens in the real life too. You sometimes let the people understand themselves instead of you trying to make them understand. And when they themselves understand and come to you and say, good I agree with your point or well, I don't seem to agree with your point, its a good feeling. At least, the person made some effort to understand what I had written. The whole purspose of writing is not to show that you know what you know, its just expressing your ideas on certain issues and have people read your views and either corerct you, criticize you or agree with you, after correctly reading and understanding what you have written.


And also there are some people who are in a totally different tangent, and its just a sheer waste of time and energy to be engaging in verbal exchanges with them. You just learn to not to take those seriously because as I wrote earlier, if you start taking every thing in Sajha and life seriously, then you hamper your own emotional and intellectual growth.


Lastly, being an international relations major, I believe in deGaulle's "Detente" approach. Sometimes, you have to make the first move, and people will later, if not sooner, appreciate that. Nixon crossed the great wall to ameliorate the relationship with China- a nation of one billion people- and although at that time, it was seen as not a good move, now almost every literature on Sino-US relations hails Nixon's move as one of the greatest diplomatic victory of the United States. Sometimes, you have to follow realpolitik, and have a clear udnerstanding of the world, based on the surrounding reality. You have to know how you can maximize your interests, not minimize those. WHen you learn that, then you know when to take things seriously, when to make it your ego issue and when just take things lightly. Your life becomes a lot more interesting and you end up making many "Worthy" friends.

Feel free to disagree. Constructicve criticims always welcome.

You should try to either make them understand or just let them think the way they think, unless and until its absolutely necessary to correct them= you should not try to make them understand, just let them think the way they think...

यहाँ MM Brole Misunderstood गरेका हुन्। त्यो 7th grade भन्ने शब्दले त्यस्तो पार्यो के।
उनले ७ क्लासको अनूभव भनेको ठाँउमा तिमी आएर 7th Grade भनेसी भ्रम सिर्जिन्न त?
तिम्ले 5th or 6th or 8th भन्या भए कुरै खत्तम!
MM Bro ko जोस तातो छ, रिस उठेसी उठ्यो उठ्यो ! अरिगंल जस्तो भर्र्र आएर टोकिहाल्ने ।
अस्ति हुलाकीलाई झण्डै गोध्या । मैले अनि MM Broko हात सात समातेर हुलाकीलाई जोगाएको यार!

dada giri bro, feri asamajhdari bhayo, ek choti ek-apas le ke lekheko ramro sanga bujhaun, ani kura garaunla.



"And the brilliant 7th year senior kid who came up with this theory got kicked out because he did not take the shit that his professors were giving him! "


"हाँ MM Brole Misunderstood गरेका हुन्। त्यो 7th grade भन्ने शब्दले त्यस्तो पार्यो के।
उनले ७ क्लासको अनूभव भनेको ठाँउमा तिमी आएर 7th Grade भनेसी भ्रम सिर्जिन्न त?
तिम्ले 5th or 6th or 8th भन्या भए कुरै खत्तम! "