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mamta
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Posted on 12-05-05 5:48
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why are all these guys commenting and giving their biased views about nepali girls??? listen all you guys out there, you are no different from any nepali girls, you think nepali girls have attitudes then its your fault to understant it that wa. Nepali are very beautiful, kind, and honest girls. and its just you who behave different with them, that makes you think differernt about girls. not only nepali girls, but even americans wont like you if you show attitiudes and think you are the most handsome hunk around them. We girls dont like guys who want every girl to treat them special, if we dont like anyone we just wont, no matter how hard you try we wont give a s*** about all those guys, and that is the reason you comment about girls All of you want us to be a "sati sabitri", and someone who will stay at home and take care of you, and do whatever you say, but things are differnt and america is different, we have lot of things to worry about and boys, relationships are not our priority. We have careers, education, family back home who we need to take care of. You guys just come and talk to us like you have never seen a girls before, give us a break you all, just change the way you all think about nepali girls....
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magdalena
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Posted on 12-06-05 4:29
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------------------------- The very intelligent Nepali Sahila: Well, first question, how long have you been here in the US? You boast of guys in your family like ladies do about their people and wealth in Nepal. So in my openion, you are not that changed as much either, since you want to stay away from off the boat nepalese guys. " 90% fights happen because of girls, then isn't it the men who are stupid enough to let it affect them to that level?" Well, in this case, I have nothing to say if it only blames guys coz I was looking for some descent contribution from ladies side as well. In the parties, guys are all drunk and I just thought ladies didn't want to see fights where they are either. Some men loose their screws a bit in the vicinity of women, it is true. I think ladies know that too. Just as some ladies are easily screwable. --------------------------------------------- Boasting about wealth and avoiding illiterate jackasses who aren't men enough to hold their alcohol is entirely different. Bad logic on your part. And btw, spelling magdalena in your articulate nepali style isn't much of an insult. And not all guys get drunk in parties. There's social drinking, and then there's drinking like a frat boy. But then again, seeing the difference would require a bit of brain chemistry.
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Echoes
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Posted on 12-06-05 4:34
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_ oys! fair enuff. hey thanks! i suppose i'm outta ur way now, eh! wish you all the fine ladies out there (and here!). but pick just one hai ta...;-)
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thees_keta
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Posted on 12-06-05 4:49
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मुलाई त बोल्नै डर लागो गाँठे। बोलो कि शाझाका औरिकाको हाँवा'ला तन्नेरीहरु दुई-तिन पेज कोमेन्ट गर्छन। :( अब केरे, औऊरेजिबाट - प्यारी सिरिनको लागि। ---- Now, in english for my lovely cerine:) Me very scared bhaying, shi* :D...If talkin talkin then sajhaolic phemales hitting me with tuu - theeri pana koomaynts. hehe jk.
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mamta
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Posted on 12-06-05 5:16
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sanjays, you talk about how you have changed since you left home, and i think same thing applies with us but we dont get drunk to death. Coiming to america has taught a lot to us, from working 12 hrs a day to going to clubs and hanging out with friends. yess here we dont have to report to our parents before sunset. we are free to certain extent only though. We still dont have freedom like guys, and even americans dont exercise that freedom. girls have never been able to come out of their cocoon and say heyy this me is, i dont give a damm on what you think. we are just conscious of what others think about us, and we are constantly thinking if i do this or that what will my husband or my in laws will think after i get married. Though we are powerful, and can proove that we are more efficient than boys than too we can never be treated like society does to men.
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highfly
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Posted on 12-06-05 5:24
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Do not generalize KTM. Ya all are talking like KTM is a hell for ya all ladies. I aint gotta clue where ya all grew up. But ya all should stop generalizing about KTM. I found KTM guys and gals all more tololarnt than ya all living abroad. Ya all check out the clubs, schools; Ya will know what I am saying. There are always exceptions and family restrictions. But ya all know there is totally differnt social setting in KTM. Ya all gotta choose which ya all wanna live in. Fresh off the board. This do mean a shit. FOB is my homie then I know they all are cool. They aint got any issue like ya all. Live and let live. One love peace out
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mamta
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Posted on 12-06-05 5:26
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I DO NOT AGREE about this fight thing in parties and girls evoke them. girls are simple,soft hearted persons, they dont want to see one of their nepali daju-bhai bleeding. fights break out because most of the time guys want to and tend to act like they "Protect" girls. We often regard "female creatures" as helpless and males as dominant and females are cannot take care of themselves. to some extent we tend to make that impression ourselves too, which i think is totally wrong. and the other reason to break out the fights between guys is that guys fight, its their nature. I also blame guys to break fights for no reason, if one guy stares at other the second one goes on"oh bro kaslai stare deko?" and fights just break out. I havent seen that in US but i have experienced that behaviour in nepal.
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highfly
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Posted on 12-06-05 5:34
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c'mon Mamta, do not be hating. Ya know it there are some asshole* every where. Why it gotta be issue with guys and gals? peace out
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nepaliG
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Posted on 12-06-05 5:40
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ohh mamta ji, i am impressed with your views about men and women and why men want to devaluate women. There is both sides to it, both men and women need to analyze themselves. you are one true nepali feminist i met in sajha. two thumbs up ladyy!!!
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Posted on 12-06-05 6:07
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this one is for the very educated magdalena!!! well i dont care what your dad is... he might b a double masters in engeneering or woteva... all the men in ur family might be super intelligent super beings..but does that make them better than the rest of the human popolation who do not use their brains for the their living....the ones who literally have to sweat and work their arse to the bone to feed their family... wot about those who who never had the opportunity that you and all the rest of your lot in the US had... according to you all of them ( and the so called just off the boat nepalese ) dont deserve to breathe the same air as you... talk about being big headed... who gives a shit about how many degrees you have got or how smart you are?? step down from your; whereever it is that you live with your superbeings and step down to where the normal ppl live... but that will be too demeaning for you, wont it? very kind of you to stay well away frm nepalese ppl..... WE DONT WANT YOU ANYWAY!!!
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magdalena
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Posted on 12-06-05 6:16
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Baz grg, Please calm down. I'm sorry I said I stay from most Nepali people. I thought some of the posts here were very unbelievable. What I meant to say was, I like to stay away from FOBs who just land because it's usually those people who drink (and aren't even able to hold their alcohol). That's very pathetic for someone in their twenties-thirties. And I've never insulted the working class Nepalese, the ones who have to work for their living. It's those people that I respect. And since they're not in north america, they aren't fobs. The fobs who use their parents money to get wasted (and they're 25+) are really bad examples of descent human beings. And about the fobs, I said I AVOIDED THEM (COMPRENDES?), I NEVER said 'they don't deserve to breathe the same air.' Please calm down, read correctly, and then write back. I'm sure you'll find lots of nonexistant insults here too.
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Cerine
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Posted on 12-06-05 7:38
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theesssssssssssssss :-) ty for the translation :-D u're so sweet
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thapap
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Posted on 12-06-05 10:22
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Magdalena, ==================================================== And I've never insulted the working class Nepalese, the ones who have to work for their living. It's those people that I respect. And since they're not in north america, they aren't fobs. ==================================================== let me get to the logic here: [as u mentioned somewhere: SAT/GRE CRITICAL READING ] [ my inference is following ] 1. WORKING CLASS WORKS FOR LIVING 2. MAGDALENA RESPECTS WORKING CLASS 3. WORKING CLASS NEPALESE ARE IN NEPAL 4. NEPALESE IN US ARE NOT WORKING CLASS 5. NEPALESE IN US DO NOT WORK FOR LIVING 6. MAGDALENA DO NOT RESPECT NEPALESE IN US. 7. NEPALESE IN US ARE FOBs. ==================================================== So, u think FOB's do not work for living or FOB's do not work @ all? [ u did generalize it up there] and I am a Nepalese in US so I am neither working class nor respectable thus and FOB. right???? I have a simple question for you! person who u associate urself with or think are wonderful were also FOBs some 5-10-15-20 yrs ago. Is that correct? Pls do look urself up as well; I am sure ur name for some conservative catholics does not bode well whateve DAN BROWN might ennunciate. certainly not yin and yang. or the mirror image of Jesus. and pls do remember ur past as well .... may b u also belong to FOB class and this is y u r so guilty? may b u do not? But everybody who came to states for their UNDERGRAD or GRAD "studies"; have to take money from their parents in the beginning even if they were blessed with full rides here. and just because u or some elite lucky ones never have/had to take help does not mean majority of NEPALESE who come to study here have to work their a$$ off just to support the tuition and living expense. THEY WORK HARD AND IN UR WORDS THEY MIGHT BE FOB's BUT CERTAINLY THEY ARE BUILDING THEIR OWN FOUNDATION not gloating. ===================================================== as always what do i know? (o:
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thapap
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Posted on 12-06-05 10:26
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matrix, how r u dear.. havenot had the pleasure of ur divine existence (O: for some tym now me diplomatic.. huh!! where ??!!! r u alright ?? (o: ==================================================== c ur email (O:
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magdalena
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Posted on 12-06-05 10:34
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Taking money from parents for LIVING, EATING, STUDYING and taking money from your parents for: DRINKING, SMOKING POT, DRINKING AND THROWING UP WHEN YOU'RE IN YOUR 20s, AND SMOKING MORE POT is: be sure to read this part: DIFFERENT. As in not the same thing. Repeat again, not the same thing. Working to support yourself and your studies is different than taking money from parents to drink and party (and in a very uncivilized manner). Maybe you put university education and 'alcohol + pot' in the same category, that's your faulty reasoning.
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thapap
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Posted on 12-06-05 10:37
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magdalena jyu, u still did not answer 90% of my questions?
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thapap
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Posted on 12-06-05 10:42
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Magdalena jyu, and did u see me defending anybody who is spending MONEY ON POTS. JUST BECAUSE MY NAME reveres 'POT' does not mean I use it or praise its usage. did u get any essence there? U CANNOT LABEL EVERYBODY AS FOB's JUST BECAUSE THEY WERE NOT BORN HERE OR HAVE CITIZENSHIP LYK URS. and do not AGREE WITH YOU. ====================================================
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magdalena
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Posted on 12-06-05 10:46
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You have a very few questions on there so what constitutes 90%? Lets see 1. I'm not an FOB. 2. FOB definition would depend on how a person acted. For example, there are lots of people who come here, don't make fools of themselves, and work hard. I don't call them FOBs. They're progressive immigrants. 3. I have no clue what you do. If you're one of those who drinks and pukes, and smokes pot, and doesn't go to school but is here on a student visa, and is planning a career at walmart, then yes. But I don't know you. I don't know your manners. So I can't tell you if I think you're an FOB. 4. My mother stayed in the US when she was younger(diplomatic). Therefore, I don't believe we were 'fobs' when we initially moved. Summary: FOB is determined by behavior, not how many years you have stayed here. If you have any more questions be sure to ask.
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Posted on 12-06-05 10:51
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mamta.... i agree with your firsty paragraph... totally, hence i dont do it.. and yup, i let the people know that i dont like them if i dont....so we think alike... but when i get to the second paragraph...... the first half of the sentence ticks me off, "All of you want us to be a "sati sabitri", " at first, i dont give a damn about them all, so come down to what i think about a girl... yeah, i do want her to be a "sati sabitri" there is nothing wrong with that.... but again... that my opinion and my choice...... seems like that the only thing i dont agree with you... seems like i agree with everything you say but that small portion "All of you want us to be a "sati sabitri", "
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Posted on 12-06-05 10:59
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magdalen bro... i am a FOB, dont hate... and if i do get drunk and puke, smoke pot, not go to school... and whatever your definition for being a FOB is, and is planning a career, not the place where you would wanna work, then its none of your business. Its my life, imma live it the way i want it.... and whats the dissin towards ppl working at walmart or any retail shop... you got any clue what the CEO makes... he obviously makes more than you do.... so, walmart aint a bad job is it.... as a matter of fact, i might think about working at walmart and make some quick bucks when you will be busting your ass working for the mere 50-250 k.. coz if i am not wrong, they make alot more than just that........ so, now define me what FOB means...
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thapap
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Posted on 12-06-05 11:07
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Magdalena jyu, u r changing ur definition lyk a chameleon. ====VERY FIRST POST OF URS=============================== aha, This is why I stay the hell away from most Nepalese people. Of course, educated members of our community are great. My dad is a double masters engineer and you'll never hear him say or do some of the really idiotic things I've seen Nepalese men do. I think it's usually fresh off the boat nepalese who behave stupidly, so I don't want to generalize. I know the Nepalese men in my family are well educated and well mannered and that's all great, but some of the men I've seen are just so stupid that it's beyond funny. I once went to a Nepalese party and grown men drank too much and threw up!!! Can you believe it? And not just one, four or five of them. It was so disgusting. Plus, if you're not super friendly then you get accused of trying to be white. So my advice: if it's a fresh off the boat nepali man, avoid him like the plague ===================================================== u said=====> "I think it's usually fresh off the boat nepalese who behave stupidly". here FOB is not defined by act. ITS A GIVEN THAT FOB NEPALESE behaves STUPIDLY. i.e. NOT a definition derived from action rather a LABEL ON NEW PEOPLE WHO DOES NOT FIT IN UR ACCEPTANCE CLASS/LEVEL. u advised "if it's a fresh off the boat nepali man, avoid him like the plague" here also FOB is not defined by ACT. ITS A LABEL based on UR PERCEPTION. i.e. to NEW COMERS. ================================================== as always what do i know? (o:
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