We have been in love since 1/2 decade. I have been working here in Us since 4 yrs. I went to Nepal couple years ago to see her. At that time everything was fine. I was planning to go back to country on end of this march to get married with my beloved, my heart. But I don'w know when and how the things went wrong. My heart and I were fighting and making love till today. I can't say my girl friend anymore now, she  just got  married. She left me broken heart. I called her today but couldn't reach her coz her cell phone was switched off. My herat is totally broken in tiny pieces even can't write here. I'm just expecting some healing suggestion to forget my heart and those golden moment that we had shared. Please No offensive word. I wish I could write more about my distance love that made us seperate now. 

                      Can you please friends share your experience and opinion here so I can heal my broken heart.

Whewwww,,,
Cool suggestions!!! Sounds like they work..
My first relationship (LOL aka love of life starting at highschool, which was love at first sight for me),,which lasted almost 7 years through pretty rough days, multiple on and off long distance years. I indulged myself in flood of affairs after that,,dating multiple girls at the same time,,also almost made it a ritual to visit clubs like every week..and bla bla bla.,,

I did manage to muster enough hostile feelings towards my LOL making myself believe the she was an  evil person..And after a few years of living in my world where i tried my best to make myself believe that i was a fool to think that she one indeed the one,,one email from her one day (with social networks these days  it looks like one can never really hide away) was enough to knock off my seemingly invulnerable personality that i built in those years,, And all of sudden it just felt like she was my LOL and it will stay that way forever,,no matter how i appear from outside. I will never be able to be near her physcially with her new circumstances,,

And amazingly now i dont hate her anymore,,no matter what was done to me..I pray for her happiness..Many relationships have come and gone between then,,But then only one that still matters is the one that taught me to live as if i was never hurt.

I am glad i can say it out aloud here..(sounding like a loser)

Anyways it's one big thing in life but it's not the only thing in life. One can survive still survive without a kidney

Now i dont have any problem moving in and out of relationships..

@nomorecrush great words... Any pain more than 13 minutes(i gave u 1 more grace minute) is self inflicted. So move on and find someone else.

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enjoy this , sometime i even forget my present girlfriend :)

Did she ever reveal the relationship to her parents or relatives? If not - this day was bound to come. This is litmus test for 'most' of nepali girls.

To any "Nepali" guys who are in relationship - if your partner is reluctant to talk of the relationship with their relatives, there is something not 100%.

Next - it is human nature to hold the best available and look for the possible better.. Everyone is playing this game.  Once better card is encountered, throw the previous one. If you disagree - it is simply because you have not encountered the better one yet... - this is the simple truth of life.

Suggestion to you - time is the greatest healer. Flow with time. She is not yours - there is nothing you lost. Don't be jealous or angry that you did not have sex with her - at least... (believe me, most guys who lost their girls have this 'ego') - this feeling will damage you more emotionally. Also, don't feel that her new man is better than you -  wrong. You are good person, you are successfull person. So might be she. It is simply that something somewhere did not go went. That's it. AVOID ANY SORT OF EGO FEELING.

And yeah, it is good to be in another relationship. Not distant one this time. Smile :)

@spyglass, very good you are wishing good for your ex despite her dishonesty.
We're in 2012 and we're more liberal and kind than ever before. These positive changes are affecting everyone and this is the way everyone should be, giving and kind. I think few days ago, I read somewhere similar story similar to yours.

Remember, you are not the one and first to be heartbroken , there are million of others. Don't believe me?? there are thousands songs on break-up.
- Why worry? don't see fault in you rather see what is waiting for you. Life is a learning process, and you learned something very important that only and only YOU know.
- Think of this universe, see the stars, contemplate for a moment about all this creation and see where you are at. Don't bother yourself bro, these problems are insignificant as compared to what we really are. It's about time to go cosmic and bring up your true nature. The moment you do or become that, you'll attract more people :D 
- Don't run after physical desires (don't fall for those say like 6 billions people, there must be one, of course there is, but don't run for it). Everything happens, happens for a reason. You deserve something wonderful and that awaits you :D Just give sometime to yourself.

Right now, you must be having a sleepless nights and probably hungerfree out of worry, more you do it, more you harm yourself. Sit in, meditate and think think think unless you realize that whatever you are doing (like worry, depression) is worthless.

Tke care.

Spyglass,

Since  you are 29 and she was 27 already and there was no forseable plan of you two getting together i am going to assume that the girl was under lots of pressure to get married by her family and herself. In that context, i am going to hold back against calling the girl a biatch or selfish like everyone is doing here.

It is quite tough for women back home to stay single till 27 especially without any good explanation. I have heard many stories similar to yours and concluded that the relationship ended becasuse it was not practical. Rather than communicating those crucial issues Nepalese just move on to thier next option without letting the other person know ( just a Nepali way of dealing with Issues).

Nevertheless, you are in a tough spot. Try to accept the reality and deal with the situation. I know its easier said than done but try to focus on yourself, make yourself a better commodity and you will find another person whom you deserve.

Hope you find console within and much success with your next love.