I have been thinking about this from the long time....which relationship works most??...the realtionship based on intimacy...based on dependency..based on understanding...based on fun...based on sex...i m just curious...and wanted to share something from ur side..

Ofcourse all of the above...a relationship full of exploration and challenge for intimacy with the comfort of committed love.

Mr nirman, it depends upon the way ppl think... Some things based on which my relationship works the best, might not work for you.... you gotta figure out what you want, and then find the girl that wants the same thing as you do... I mean, you both GOTTA be happy and have fun when you are in a realtionship..... MUI PERFECTO.. wooo hooo, i am learning spanish... so yeah, start dating a buncha girls, figure out which one is the closest match.. and bam.... there you go....

hey sand,
i don't need anyones suggestion to carry on with my relationships...i was just wondering what other ppl think thats all..and that won't affect the way i deal with people...all i wanted was to share...for me the relationship that really work is the one in which u r bound and can't get out but still u feel soo free and like flying when ur partner is around...thats it broda...

i think dat'z a nice answer.............ANYWAY'Z HAPPY NEW YEAR

Heard this in radio...
2 types of relationship...
1. Yo Yo relationship
2. Frisbee relationship....

I prefer the latter one... ;)

yo, fo real nirman bro??? have you really experienced that or is that some movie line????

Girls probably dont like DWI.

Driving while Intaking.

Hey
I don't go on repeatin something from a movie okies...thats somewhat i have expereinced...and yeah sand broda...I hope u get to expereince somethin like that some day...best of luck...

ehhehe....I choose none of the above

you for real nirman bro.... damn, thats phat.... oh well, yeah i wish i get to experience something like that too.....

Dalli pokchi le hocha pudka sangh ma samparka raakhe hunchha ni ho....hehehehehe...ek na ek jana kaso nabhettela....aany ways sand it sure was nice discussion wid u...hope u get to expereience that pretty soon...All da best..

Seeing the many advantages I feel "Common Law Union" is kind of relationship worth exploring for people who are not yet ready to committ themselves to someone they are in romantic relationship.

Defination of Common Law Union:
A married like relationship (but not married) between couple made up of opposite sex partners (or of same sex partners in countries where same sex union is granted full legal status eg. Canada) who have been living under the same roof in a harmonious relationship for a period of time.

Denifits of Common Law Union:
* Full recognition and granted full legal status & rights by Federal and Provincial Laws in Canada.

* Can get into Common Law Union with anyone at anytime and leave the Common Law Union at anytime without the concent of your Common Law Partner.

* No need of going through the disgusting process of divorce and the legal hassels that follows divorce out of marriage.

* Can get married with anyone (Common Law Partner or the person other than your Common Law Partner) while you are still in Common Law relationship.

* No need to share your property with your Common Law Partner when you break up from Common Law Union with your Common Law Partner.

* No need for commitment nor are you forced to marry (if you choose not to) your existing Common Law Partner.

For more go to www.bcfamilylaw.ca/commonlaw.html

Hi Netaa_Ji...!!!

As you name suggests, you think politically correct..... You have a bright future ahead of you in our country...

To my opinion, as our Sajha Writer's Guild "Theory of Relationship", propounded by Awesome writer, Deepak Bhandari (check it out, it is quite remarkable...), you definitely fall under the catagory of Committment Phobia and Freedom Mania. Perhaps, it (CLU) is the theory of new generation: However, at the end, only emotional attachment that matters on "Common Male-Female Union!!!!"

At The End, Kindness only Matters....

Pheri Vaytaula...!!!

P.S-> Please do not take it literally: Hey may be it is just me....!!!

Well I have very little idea if I will have bright future in Nepal or not but I can definately count on cultural, social, political and economic values of Canadian society and I find myself even more connected and tied to Canadian society.

More than that I have no legal or political obligation nor am I forced by the Canadian govt. or by it's laws and the society to go and spend rest of my life in Nepal. The only connection I have left now in Nepal is my family connection.

I cant hold 2 passports of two different countries in Nepal under Nepali Law.

Dhanya ho "Rare Law Freedom" of Nepal, Contrary to "Common Law Union" of Western...

I just liked to add some points about bright future.

Well,
* I didnt and dont get free Universal Health Insurance Plan (or free health service) when I was in the US nor did I ever get it in Nepal. It's a trademark of Canadian society now. http://www.health.gov.on.ca/english/public/program/ohip/ohip_mn.html

* I dont get EI (Employment Insurance) in the US or Nepal, better known as the money given to individuals who is out of job due to some reason eg. when I'm unable to work when I wish to take a career related training or join an academic program (college or university). http://www.hrsdc.gc.ca/en/gateways/nav/top_nav/program/ei.shtml

* I dont get Employee Insurance & Compensation for rest of my life if I were to get into employment related accidents in the US or Nepal. http://www.wsib.on.ca/wsib/wsibsite.nsf/public/home_e

* I dont get welfare if I were in temporary financial crisis in the US or Nepal.
http://www.cfcs.gov.on.ca/CFCS/en/programs/IES/OntarioWorks/default.htm

By the way Common Law Union is not legally recognized in the U.S. (I dont know about European countries) by federal or state laws.

Same sex marriage is not legally recognized in the U.S. http://www.cbc.ca/story/canada/national/2004/12/09/scoc-gaymarriage041209.html

Using or possesing of small amount of marijuana is proposed to be de-crimilized in Canada in near future however it is a serious legal trouble if you were to caught using or possessing marijuana in the US. http://canada.justice.gc.ca/en/foryouth/faq.html

k ho yehan ta law ko kura po niskana thalechha..ahey ppl law lai chodera yeso real life tira aau na ho...law saw isn't that interesting...and i didn't started this to discuss abt law...its is to discuss abt relationship...so please please follow the subject...dhnayabaad...

Hi Nirman Ji...!!!

K garnu afno Peetashree ra Maatashree ko Bhawisya ko Kanoon ko chora/chori (Son-in-law/ daughter-in-law) khojney prayash maa, tyo "LAW" ko kura ta jhan dyammai firsttai maa aunu parchu. Natra bhanay Mitra Sansar Andhakar Cha...

Agrim suchana hai ta yo... " Law of thermorealationship...!!!"

Pheri Vaytaula...!!!

common dude ..."Common Law Union" is simply a name given to that perticular type of relationship....it's nothing about having to look through the god da**m laws ..ha ha ha..Kanoon Ko Choraa ...ha ha ha ha...that was funny !! how about "Kanoon ko Bhai" (Brother- in- Law)..ha ha !!!

Anyway, afnoo desh ko society and cultural lae fully embrace garee ko kuraa..........why not experiment...like million of Canadians .......I dont necessarily have to follow this all my life..when I want, I can quit and get into normal traditional marriage anyway.

Just a little off topic but I would like to comment to Netaa_ji's remarks:

Free healthcare sounds great and all but it is not something I am so big on now. The reason being that I see so many loop holes wiht that. For eg..people have this tendency to abuse stuffs that are for free...few months ago I went to go see this doctor( first time in 2 years)...I walk in and there are zillions of people out there...standing on queue...then I realised people were coming to see the doctor for even minor little things..I mean like..ok ...caught some cold..gotta see a doctor...on the other hand Canadian governemtn gives "certain" amount of dollars to a doctor...for eg...for every patient that goes to the clinic , the doctor gets some amount of money..but as soon as he/she exceeds..some figure around 400k a year..the doctor wont be getting any more money ..no matter how many patient he takes..Now..this takes a effort cuz when the doctors know they are close to that number they usually take off or go on vacation or slack off...I mean..I dont blame them..but there is a loop hole..

Sometimes I feel deprived of the tax money I am paying..they tax us to bone and when I walk in the clinic I have to wait all day to go see a doctor..its not worht it.also..what about those people who are EXTREMLY self concious and go there...every week....I mean indirectly its affecting me...I would rather have my dollars and make the decisions..I mean...having that healthcare security helps.. but its not worth it..thats why more and more people..have private healthcare....

I hate the way Canada is dipping into socialist/capitalist dilemma...its confused..I should say..the greatest thing about Canada is the low violence rate comapred to US..other than that ..Canada looks good only on paper..I mean the way the government is opening hands to Gay marriage also has greed in it..I dont have anything against them..I have learnt to accept them with who they are ..but as more and more gay couples from US are settling in Canada..I am sure Paul Martin is smiling somewhere..