What do you guys feel about.. Why can't we talk or see girls?

DP, how do you access the "Writer's Guild"?

San hasn't made it public yet.I just had a sneak preview.He is going to post the link here soon.
DP.

so DP, honest question, are spouses only for sexual pleasures and that is that the only thing that sud hold their bond of love or marriage?? is that the only thing that represents marriage? if no then why is only having engaged in sexual activity with someone else is cheating..can u elaborate, cause yes, this is really out of my sense..

i dont believe in wedding dude. I have been trying to go home for last 3 yrs. Whenever i say that to mum, i get bombarded by beautiful gal pic. I am only 24 yrs and i not in sitution to get married. I want to get married with my own money. Only thing stowps me to go back home is my wedding.

Okay Confused:
Sexual activity doesn't only mean "pocking the dough" . It includes all other activities with sexual feelings and intentions in your mind (like looking at a girl, flirting with her, calling her and having little sex chitchats, and other similar stuffs).
Sex is, of course, very important factor in married life.That doesn't make it is the only important factor.Loving, caring, sharing, feelings, helping, being helped, and other similar abstract stuffs play a major role too.These factors don't substitute sex, rather complement it and make it more meaningful and enjoyable.
This is what I believe.This may not necessarily apply to you or anyone else at all.
DP.

This is bulllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllll. I dont waste all my time reading all this crap.

Well guys, here are some suggestions! If u are married, divorce her before u have "sex with another woman". If u really care of your wife's feelings then u can't allow u do that. Two minutes of pleasure can ruin your marriage and can affect your children's life then u are too selfish to be indulging in this kind of thoughts! Obviously, Nepalese men are notorously known to have 4-5 wives, if u are getting these feelings then it's best to divorce than to hurt any innocent wife. There are several reasons behind your cravings though:

a) You are not satisfied sexually
b) There is no communication about sex life in your marriage
c) You are a casinova naturally hmmmm.....(in this case u shouldn't get married)
d) You don't find your wife that attractive (in this case arranged marriage can be the case)

In order for a marriage to work u have to have trust, communication and good sex life too......(although some nepalese laugh when we talk openly about sex and they suffer in their real life).You have to work constantly to make your marriage work! It's a life long thing. If u don't have these things then don't just sacrifice and think u will just ignore it! It will come out eventually and will be a big mess. Think carefully either this marriage isn't for u or u are being selfish like men who have more wives!

sweetiepie:
I agree with you.
But I have one correction and two questions.

Correction: "two minutes of pleaseure" should be at least "30 minutes of pleasure" for god's sake.

Questions:
1) Who came in just two minutes?
2) Even if someone did, how did you know?

DP.

Why do you think 'Viagra' is so popular in the US?

Have you heard in the TV commercial of the possible side effects that the erection can last for up to eight hours, my goodness. The commercial also says call your Doctor if that happens, someone said it that the Doctor is the last person to call when you have an erection lasting 8 hours, you will first call all the girls in your phonebook :)

There you go, 2 min problem is solved. 2 mins is strictly for "Wai Wai" instant noodles my friends.

hahahahaha, yahh.. bro i have seen it ..hahaha bedrock..hahahahahahahhaha..mare yar ma ta..hasayo..bedrock le..

and you that that commercial of the WILD THING, that cracks me up man...everytime i see it on the tv..its just too funny...

you know that WILD THINK who wanted to spend the entire honeymoon inside?? hahahaha..its funny :)

think = thing*
hahaha... ok here i found the whole transcript of the commercial

"Remember that guy who used to be called 'WILD THING?' " an announcer asks. "The guy who wanted to spend the entire honeymoon INDOORS? Remember the one who couldn't resist a little mischief? Yeah, THAT GUY. He's BACK..sound effect:TIUUUUU." At that point the Viagra brand logo appears behind the man's head, and the announcer says, "Ask your doctor if Viagra is right for you." and plus guy looks like devil..

You heard it ladies. Keep your men off 'viagra' otherwise they'll have too much FUN (even though married). Imagaine them coming up with 'female viagra', then both men and women running around with the 8 hour side effects, the work place will be a big ORGY from 9 to 5. Nothing will ever get done.

comon sweetpie get real dude. I mean what makes u think that..god..your husband is going to suffer so much. He will be like your slave." suna na bhaneko, tyo school maa gayera baacha leiyara aau" man..u r husband is going to suffer. I dont want to marry nepali gal coz either to much pati parmeshwor..washing feet and drinking water or too much in head..i havenot seen balance nepali women in my life.

Hilarious!!!All right looks like all of u are the same old nepali idiots..... and should remain as bachelors...... if any of the girls read this.......they will laugh their heart out u guys!! U all are mocking me because u can't handle the truth of something actually being wrong in the marriage! "The Two minute" phrase is a "saying" u silly guys!! It means it is not as important as the long term marriage!! Without understanding the phrase well u guys went into the llong discussion of the viagra hmm... hilarious! pitty on u guys!!! I am a married woman soooo I know all about sex. U guys don't need to teach me! I think u all need viagra to be active........because it looks like u are all sexually incapable!! By the way, viagra is for old people........but u guys might need it now! No wonder nepalese male are sooo not satisfied even after 4 wives......give me a break! U guys are animals.......

Mr. Moneyminded, do I look like someone who will wash husband's feet.....??? Totally opposite!! Things have changed dear! go look around a bit,, will u?? Well who wants to marry you dude!! Get a life! CHEERS!

After a long time, I am seeing what seems to me a thread with a genuine and underexplored topic (in sajha).

Thanks ssg -- you've exposed the rawness and reality of human longings for the forbidden in the form of your personal (I'm assuming) confessions!

SP, you are not going to be popular in Sajha by calling people "idiot". You can't even take viagra jokes. Understand though, women's sexuality drops after having few kids though whereas men's are ever increasing. So at the peak of women sexuality, they might outlast men in performance but not in the long run. what do you say?

Hey bedrock, u think I want to be popular discussing about sex among all u men! HELL NO! I am the only woman discussing with u guys openly man! If u want a female perspective about what they think of men or if u perfer discussing only among you males then u will never know what women feel? Will u? Why do u think I can't get the viagra joke hmm..... all of u didn't get the phrase I was using obviously I had to wake them up! Are u intimidated by a nepali woman(who is supposed to be sojhi, mijasilo, doesn't talk about sex according to u guys) who is suggesting a thing or two? Zee.... who told u that women's sexuality doesn't last that long hmm?? U are wrong dear! Don't blame it on women when men need viagra not women.....get it!!

Switiepie:
Calling nepali men idiots makes you an idiot's wife...not a very good idea. Two minutes vs. 30 minutes comment was supposed to be a joke.You took it seriously.Well, nobody is teaching anyone "Sex" in sajha. These discussions are necessary ones.We can continue the discussion and analysis without calling each other stupids.
You wrote:
"do I look like someone who will wash husband's feet.....??? Totally opposite
That really means that your husband washes your feet.

I just hope it is not true.
DP

Sweetie Pie, from now on I am gonna call you Bitter Pie. I don't think anyone is attacking you but you are so on defensive side. Can we change the attitude and discuss in a friendly manner rather than arguing every single post. Of course, men would want women's perspective on this discussion but not this heated.

I am glad to see all of your responses. Specially sweetiepie, not rejecting others comments... Ms Sweetiepie went deep on explaining how sexual she is. I adore your sexuality. By the way, I appose on the Viagara thing. Swear don't need it wotsoever. I see the C - i am ready to Dig with my hardy. As far as lasting - hmm let's see if I have this right -

first - probably 7 mins
second - 36 mins
Third - probably more then an hour if this is going on all night.

How about your guys?