What do you guys feel about.. Why can't we talk or see girls?

Do this, let your wife have plenty of "fun" and stand back and watch, when she gives u the go sign its your turn, there's my opinion.

I can't wait any more I need to hang aound with gals and have fun - don't want her to know though - BAD BAD ME.

yeah bad bad you sssg.. but i agree with meera... as they say' ladies first'.. give ur wife the chance and then u follow suit!!!:P

who told you to get married at the first place???????
now pay the price
no fun for you


these married people i tell you..............................
what were you thinking????

Ghhuchuk ma aankha bhayo bhaney testai huncha... Serves you right!! May you suffer !

There is an old saying:
"What she doesn't know, doesn't hurt her"
That may be true. But remember, it doesn't hurt her because it kills her before she gets hurt.

Looking at beautiful girls, talking to them in good faith, and admiring their beauty is not immoral.Cheating on your wife is different.If you are emotionally married to your wife (this means you really love and respect her and you want the same from her), you don't want to engage yourself in EXTRACURRICULAR ACTIVITIES.

Before you go and sleep with another girl, imagine how you would feel if your wife slept with anohter man.This must be a good enough reason for you not to seek extra fun .

DP

plus this forum is not a place to seek advice on having extramarital affairs.. or did you think it would spice up the forum?? think again!!

dont get married, live free, without worries, without children, ..and world will be a beautiful place...for you and me..

You can see anyone but just put it in the pocket.

Get your wife's permission ifrst!

Thank you everyone for your responses. I guess I will have to stick with what I have as many complained that it wouldn't be fare for my own self. Life will go on one way or another I guess.

womens are root of all the pain..........stay single and have fun........for u dude, if u know how to balance out and in .........its ok.........most of the men do it....its okie........most important it how u balance and are u clever or u can join the new generation............get a girl for her.......thresome or invite the guy she fancy.......u know kind a fun........why not?

Now u are talking MoneyMinded. I like your theory.

Confused, Moneyminded, and sssg:
Remaining single for the sake of freedom? Read my article in The Writer's Guild in Sajha.It's already out there.

Sitara:
The only time you will get permission from your spouse to cheat on them (if you get lucky) is when they are already cheating on you
(this is just my opinion).

DP.

Bingo DP! :)

God MM.. when I think that I have heard enough from you.. you come up with more nonsense.. !!Do you have a threesome affair along with your Viet GF??? and ssg.. you must be crazy to even get this thread started... get a life.. be loyal.. and forget day dreamin abt other women.

DP, freedom and being worry free are two diff words, and yes, i beilive both can be achieved by staying single...sure will be glad to read ur article, please provide the link if possible..

well, as i have run thru this thread, i have concluded that sex is love?? certainly if halle berry or kristen dusnt or angelina julies,(for ladies, which ever guy you think is hot ) comes naked in front of you will you be able to resist..

in my opinion, cheating is not just having sex or sleeping with other women, cheating is when you are distant from your patner, when you dont talk abt things to ur partner, when you keep ur lonliness with urself, when you arent able to be open and free with him or her, that is called cheating..having sex is not cheating guys, when a guy/gal becomes lonely depressed, then only him/her will search for a comfort with other partner...so bottom line, if ur if ur are distant from each other for a while thats CHEATING..

and finally..
haha guys i am not married tho..so gals u all can email me..

Confused:
Love, freedom, and other similar words are beyond single definition.People define these words depending on their own experience and knowledge.It's not that simple.
To me, cheating :
one spouse is engaged in sexually motivated activities but doesn't want the other spouse to know.

By the way, my article " marriage, commitment phobia, and freedom mania" is on The Writer's Guild in sajha. Check that out.
DP.